A little structure may be just the thing you need. If you set aside 30 minutes to be with them, maybe you can have 45min-1 hour to go clean the kitchen and change the laundry. Then stop and do another activity etc. This age really relies on predictability, so maybe a more set schedule would work. For example, if they learn that after breakfast and getting dressed for the day, mom will be playing blocks, or other small manipulative toys, with us for 30 minutes, then maybe you can let them watch a 30 min show while you clean up from breakfast. Also, keep toys put away that are only used when you say...it makes things seem alot more attractive. Let them play play doh, or paint, everyday if they want. That is my best bet for some uniterrupted time! Maybe once you get that in control, you could even schedule times that you leave the house, but do remember that being hungry or tired really throws them at this age, even more than it does my littler ones. At around 4 it chages again, and they learn to go with the flow. Set yourself up to do things that you dont mind leaving, as you may have to the first few times, and if the boy is being more of the problem that the girl, he will stay with daddy while the girls go out for some fun. This is a rough age no matter how well you parent, but I really believe that a little scheduling, and a lot of discipline for you and them, will go a long way. Good luck!! ~A.~