Congratulations!
Where to register: Target and Babies R Us (though i only had one person buy anything from BRU and everyone else got Target stuff)
What to register for:
Necessities! You'll be so glad you got useful things, not just cute outfits (though people will get you those anyway!)
*pacifiers (I swore we wouldn't use one until 3am when my three week old wouldn't calm down and go to sleep!) I use soothies which are most like a nipple I think.
*washcloths, definitely. and something to toss them in when you're done using them (we use them instead of baby wipes because of my son's sensitive skin but throwing the wet rags on the floor doesn't work so well-neither does putting them in your cute little hamper in the nursery because they'll get everything all stinky and wet)
*breastfeeding supplies if you're breastfeeding. nursing pads LOTS OF THEM, lanolin and yes, those gerber "diapers" that are a little thinner. They usually come in a six pack. if you're blessed with an abundance of milk, you'll need them to put under your breast while you feed to catch the excess and use to wipe your baby's face. a "boppy" pillow or a "brest friend" i like both but sometimes just use the pillow i sleep on so it's not super necessary.
*a wind machine or fan. something that makes white noise or water sounds to sleep to. if you watch or read "the happiest baby on the block" (which you should!) you'll see the reason why this is so helpful.
*a good thermometer. i needed it more than my son when i had mastitis.
THINGS YOU DO NOT NEED TO REGISTER FOR:
*socks. you'll get enough socks and if you don't, you can spend $5 and get some. they don't stay on anyway! same with shoes. don't register for this stuff, people will get you (or give you) so many and your baby will never wear them all. oh yeah, same with hats. stupid hats. (my son HATES them so all these cute hats are going to waste.)
*clothes. i mean, you CAN register for some but mostly people just pick what they think is cute, and you take it back because it's NOT cute or you just really need to get breast pads...i'm serious.
*blankets. DO NOT i repeat, DO NOT register for blankets. you will get so many damn blankets you could send them to war torn countries...actually i should look into that. most of them are so cheesy and ugly you end up using them for spit rags or floor time to cushion your little one more than warm them (besides, you're having a spring baby and it will be summer so quickly!)
*bottles, feeding systems, high chair all that stuff you're not sure of what you want and you don't think you'll need until they're a few months old, get it LATER! People say it goes by fast-which it does, but not THAT fast!
And my most important bit of advice:
Don't buy ANYTHING based on the thought that you NEED it before the baby's born. Get something if you absolutely think it's the most adorable thing and there's not another chance to get it again. Otherwise, wait until your baby is born. people will just come out of the woodwork when they see that baby bump of yours and start loading you up with everything from a brand new crib to a garbage bag filled with clothes. you will get so much stuff at your shower(s) and so many things after you have the baby, you'll wonder why you spent so much of your own money on similar things (or doubles...that's the worst!) unless you're a total impulse buyer-then i can't help you-just don't buy ANYTHING. let other people do that for you!
end rant.
enjoy your pregnancy and your time sans-child. and welcome to the beginning of motherhood!
les
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