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Once a week hubby and I have "wine and cheese" night. We try new wines, with cheese pairings, maybe some bread and grapes, etc. Sometimes we watch movies with it, and other times we just have a nice talk. And by the end of the bottle (or 2), going to bed can be quite fun. :)

Well we are not all that exciting but...

We sometimes just sit by the fire and chat, other times we lay in bed and snuggle and watch cheesy TV. Sometimes we grab a shower together or I let the hubby run me a bath, my hubby is a lover of washing me down with all the bubbles and soap and just sitting next to me and watching and talking!

Any time we are in bed, it makes him happy when I snuggle up on him and lie my head on his stomach or shoulder, he is not really all that romantic but I know him and sex and cuddling makes him feel closer to me. He always opens with "Come lay on me" when we are in bed or "Let me tuck you in" if we are headed to bed...love it!

~We started reading in bed to each other a few years back too, we decide on a book and take turns reading a chapter aloud, it might sound old and boring but it's been pretty awesome actually. We tackled the whole Sookie Stackhouse Series that way and it was a blast...we didn't have as much fun with Moby Dick (that book is a hard read!) and it is the only book in 10 years we haven't finished! --->10 years makes us sound old but I am only 33 & he is only 40!

I don't think it matters what you do as long as you are doing it together...IMO, the best way to spice things up is to just simply touch him more, doesn't even really matter where, it's the touch it self that matters!

A couple of years ago we would play strip poker or strip gin. :)

We play strip Scrabble.

Shower together, massage, lap dance...

Sounds weird, but my husband and I clean! (Sometimes... our house is definitely not perfect!) There is nothing sexier than watching your husband do the dishes.

We also cook together, dance like children in the kitchen, watch movies, take a hot bath, or just snuggle on the loveseat watching tv or movies. And eat ice cream. :)

We got a Wii - this isn't very spicy but we do have a lot of fun. Our kids are too young to play it. So it's just for the two of us. Beats watching TV

Take a nice warm shower together and than hit the hay.