Seeking Primary Care Doctor and Advice on Post Partum!

It's tough being a single mother, especially to a baby. I was in that same situation (and still am, but now she's 4). You just feel alone and love being a mother, but can't get over the alone feelings. I was and still am always on the phone to talk to people. It's tough, but you go through a lot of wonderful things too. I wouldn't trade it for the world and I'm sure you're in the same boat. I never thought about seeking out help medically. I still get the blues every now and then, but I try and stay positive. My best advice is to either talk to people over the phone or try and meet other mothers. But even that sometimes gets depressing because they aren't single and don't have the same wants/needs. lol I understand, don't have any real answers, just letting you know others are in the same situations. :o) It'll work out and you'll find a way through it all. If you ever want to talk or anything, let me know. :o)

S. - I feel for you - I went through some post partum "blues" and it is feels terrible! Just know that you will get through it. I don't know what your work schedule is like, but I joined a couple of mom's groups and that support helped immensely, especially with the questions I had as a first-time mom.

I also went to see an alternative doctor who helped regulate my hormones. After seeing him, I noticed much of my anxiety was gone. If you are interested in alternative options, let me know and I can give you his information. He is way out in Mesa, but the drive was worth it to feel better! :)

Otherwise, you are doing the right thing in reaching out to other moms. The more you can do that, the better!

Hang in there! It seems like it isn't, but this time goes by so quickly and before you know it it's six months down the road!

there is a great post partum group that meets at chandler regional hospital - Morrison building on wednesdays 1-230. babies are welcome and there are people to hold/play with them while we all talk.

It is possible she is not taking new primary care patients, but you could ask her for a recommendation in the neighborhood. She is older though a relatively new mom.

Elinor A. Schottstaedt MD
3301 N. Miller Rd. #160
Scottsdale, Arizona 85251
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If you really think you are having symtoms of Post partum depression, I can't express how important it is to get the right kind of help. If you find a good doctor, they should be able to help you find the people that can help you best. Also, you can call the Arizona Postpartum Warmline, for free at 888.434.MOMS(6667). I would definately suggest going to the group in Chandler. I had Post partum depression and got some help, but not the right kind of help. They treated me for regular depression, and it is NOT the same. I got through it eventually, but it wasn't easy even with a supportive spouse and loving family. I would think that somekind of support group would be really important for you.
Good Luck. Don't forget that God is watching over you and will be there when you most need Him.

My OBGyn is over by Scottsdale Osborn Hospital.
She's a wonderful doctor and has delivered all but 2 of my 6 children.
Here is her website: http://www.desertjewelobgyn.com/
Good luck & God bless.
~D.