J.O.
I am a little bigger then you are, but I am very odd shaped and have a really hard time finding jeans to fit me. I was out with my oldest DD looking for school clothes and noticed that one of her favorite stores was having a huge jean sale and a lot of them where on clearance, I found a pair I thought were nice and had the flair at the bottom (they make straight leg also) so I tried them one.....OMG, I love them they are called tummy tuck jeans and they help firm up the mommy pouch I have and they help the bottom to, they are a little spendy, not outrageous, but definantly well worth it, my first pair were 16.00 on clearance but they run around 100.00 and i am going to buy me next pair this week. give them a look I think Nordstroms carries the brand, here is a sight for them also..
http://www.tummytuckjeans.com/