Im curious about, ¿¿How many aguements or disagreements you have with your spouse about once month give or take??
And how soon you make up or wat-not?
I love making up.
Thanx You, all for commenting.
We disagree maybe once a week, we never argue.
I found in my first marriage that if I let it go to point of a fight you always got a fight. I just refuse to get into that pattern again.
We disagree about once a week (usually about who is responsible for the dishes in the sink or laundry in the basket). We have never actually argued in a way that requires making up.
Maybe twice a year I get my feelings hurt because I feel like he's fussing about something I'm trying really hard to do, it's not a fight though... I just tell him it's hurting my feelings and he apologizes. Done.
In my first marriage, we argued constantly and I was never able to relax. It's really important to me not to do that again.
We don't really argue. We are simply aren't arguers, it's just not the way we deal with things. We (of course) have disagreements, debates, and can nag sometimes. It's not too often, something I'm very thankful for. We get over things really quickly, and seem to have a nice ability to laugh at our ridiculousness. (Aren't most disagreements over stupid things, anyway? It's good to be able to laugh at our own stupidity!!)
Oh hell no it's a daily occurrence, unless we get into a space where he's not speaking to me, then we disagree less because there's no communication. Seriously, little disagreements all day every day that are of no consequence and something that actually requires resolution every 2-3 days, then something that prompts a complete communication shut down every 6-8 weeks or so. Living with someone with a mood disorder is just awesome. At least we're in therapy.
Hubby and I don't argue very often. I'd say maybe once every other month. Usually within a few hours it's over. As with most relationships we do have our ocassional disagreements and spats.
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maybe every other month. It blows over in 30 seconds.
We disagree but never really argue. Usually something is more important to one of us than the other so we tend to give in to the person it matters to the most. Example would be I bought a covered clothes hamper for our room. He hated having to take off the top. What mattered to me was that the clothes were in a hamper instead of being thrown on the floor so clothes in the hamper and no cover on the top was fine.
We disagree from time to time, maybe a couple of times a month, but those don't turn into arguments. We only really argue a couple of times a year, and even then we're civilized about it. I hate arguing. I love debating, though. :)
We don't really argue...what usually happens...I get upset about something...kind of hold it in until we're laying in bed...then I totally vent. At which point, I feel great, I am no longer angry AT ALL, he feels horrible that he has made me sad, than I feel horrible that I made him feel horrible and I spend a few minutes trying to convince him that I'm fine :p. It's been awhile since that's happened...BUT...we are both kind of mellow personalities. I don't think how much you disagree is an indication of health of a relationship...so much as how you communicate/work it out/etc. I have a brother...both he and his wife are not as mellow...I told my husband once that I was almost jealous (not quite the best word...let me explain)...of how much they got to 'work things out'. I love compromise, finding mutual solutions that benefit everyone...problem solving, etc. My husband and I agree on most everything anyway!
We get annoyed with one another once or twice a week. Serious arguments that require an apology, about once a month. My husband is a moody fellow. I am more laid back. I have to admit that I push a lot more than I used to because I'm starting to resent the fact that the majority of our arguments over the years have been him getting annoyed with me. Stupid stuff, of course that he really has no right to attack me for. This same stuff annoys me too but because I am laid back so I don't call him out on it. I just accept that this is how he likes to do things. He's usually the one having to apologize because he knows he's out of line the majority of the time. It leaves me furious for 1-3 hours before he apologizes. It's annoying.
We bicker, but BIG arguments, not often... We will disagree about something probably once or twice per week, but it won't turn into a blow out fight..
We make up pretty quickly... If anything, my husband is the laid back one.. I'm more high strung :)
