Ex-wife Issues

I am not an attorney, however I think if she can prove hardship a new judge may be able to revisit a case and set knew guidelines. If I were your husband I would document everything and I would get a good attorney. I think if it were me I would contribute child support and keep record of everything. This way when he goes to court he can show the judge his good faith and hopefully a judge will see his intentions are good. If he can prove she was reckless in her behavior and lost all of the money foolishly it may help, but if she lost her job and that is how she lost everything it could make a difference. If he thinks these children are possibly not his then why isn't he getting paternity tests done? That determination in itself would make a difference in the outcome. I think I would go for a consult with a professional and get sound advice. Sometimes it doesn't matter who did what it becomes a matter of what the law says has to be done. Good luck she sounds like a real prize LOL!!! I also own a childcare center in Rutherford. We are neighbors!!! I know for me it is the most rewarding job and it sounds like the same for you.

you should be discussing this with the lawyer that drafted the original decree. the lawyers know that laws

Well, i would say thing will probably go in her favor if it's about providing for the children. but you could turn this around and get visitations or shared custody of his kids. good luck.

Does your husband have a good attorney? Sometimes these kinds of cases are unpredictable, and the court finds in favor of someone who, under really ridiculous circumstances, prevails. Get a really good attorney, or at least have a consultation with a good attorney who can advise you how to proceed, if she indeed has a good case, or none at all, etc.

Good luck to you!

Step 1 - Get a great attorney. Don't you dare go into court without one.

Step 2 - No paternity test. He has claimed these children as his own. Let sleeping dogs lie. It would not be in the best interest of the children to go down that road besides the court would look at him crazy since this matter was not resolved in the divorce.

Step 3 - He may want to consider pursuing partial or full custody with him being the custodial parent. You will definitely want to refer back to step 1 for wise council.

Whatever decisions are made you will want to move forward with the thoughts of what is in the best interest of the children. This will be what the court will do and you will have to make your case for why you would be best or more stable for the children. Hopefully you have documentation of what has been going on regarding the children over the years. I'm praying for the best for you all.