Cps - Fair Oaks,CA

You lost me "I was advised by her CPS lady not to attempt to get my son". Did CPS take your son? Where is your son now?

You probably did do the right thing by allowing them into your home. It shows that you have nothing to hide and that you're willing to cooperate with them.

I really don't understand what your asking. My only advise would be to document everything. When and IF you get served with any type of papers, at that point I would contact an attorney, even if it's a public defender.

Well here in MA if you don't let them in they return with police because the must interview the child at home. Makes you look really bad itpf you don't let them in. What were they there for? How o you know dad called? It's anonymous here. Where is your son now?
You need a lawyer even if it means getting a loan from the bank. I don't think you can get a public defender unless you are facing criminal charges.

Just remember, you NEED to cooperate with CPS. The lady who came to your house was just doing her job. She has to come over and investigate the allegations that are reported. You did the right thing by letting her in. If you hadn't, she would have come back with the police, and a warrant, and it would make you look like you have something to hide. CPS isn't about taking kids away from their parents unless it's necessary. They need to do their investigation to make sure that your son is safe and loved and cared for where he is. Just because they came over and investigated, doesn't mean you will lose your son.
I am a foster parent, and I see and hear stories like yours quite a lot. You just need to remember to be respectful, do what they tell you to do, and let them see that you are a good mom.
Good luck to you!

Check to see if there is any legal services through a college around there. I'm not sure if Legal Aid is the same as a public defender. But something else to maybe check into. I would definitely be reporting any of your concerns too! I'm so sorry you and your son are going through this! I can't even begin to imagine and wish I had more help to offer!

If your ex is going to lie then tell them the truth on your side... about the 4 mile burger and his heart condition that dear old dad forgets.... Is your son or ex blind and has seizures? If the ex is, he is unfit. If your son is, your ex is still unfit unless he has proper training on it or has been around it like you have. Can you see if you qualify for a loan from a bank? I'm not trying to push you into debt lol but the loan is worth your son if you can get it for a lawyer, or have a payment plan.....? I think it is absurd to take him on here say... they have to PROVE it. What did your son say to them? Did they even take in consideration that your SON does NOT want to live there with the dad? What a jackass the dad is!!!

Just to clear up one thing. CPS did not need to get a warrant. If you'd refused to talk with them without a warrant they could have taken your son into custody based on the fact of their not being able to determine if he's in danger or not. Whether or not they took him would depend on the seriousness of the accusations. It's always best to co-operate with CPS. They are the ones who determine where your child will live. The court decides but without sufficient proof to negate CPS's recommendation the court follows their recommendation.

Also, I've known many Public Defenders who are very helpful. They are Public Defenders because they care about people getting honest representation.