A Truly Wonderful Boss

Updated on October 05, 2011
C.B. asks from Oskaloosa, KS
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*i keep reading all these heated, opinionated, often downright rude and demeaning questions, responses, and "so what happened" entries...and i always wonder is there truly a question i could ask that wouldn't get at least ONE person putting me down or being snotty? we'll see...i might have found it! maybe!?!? lol!*

It's really a very simple question...i have an amazing boss. this lady has gone to bat for me multiple times. she has petitioned for a promotion and a raise for me, and told me last week she plans to do it again in the upcoming year because she feels i am underpaid and underappreciated for all i do. she is totally my "work mom" in every way. i emulate her. she somewhat reminds me of Julie Andrews in the Princess Diaries. very diplomatic, very well put together, almost regal. as far as i can tell she's almost the perfect boss. she is honest with me if i need to change something, but so supportive and understanding. but yet when need be (with others, thank god i've never had to go through it) she can be very forceful and get the job done. and she is a great disciplinarian when need be, too. (we get "riled up" over the same issues!) she's awesome! on top of all that she spends tons of money on our little office, buying ME lunch dozens of times in the year and a half i have worked directly under her, buying the department bagels, pizza, etc. no on appreciates her. okay she has the snazzy title and the big paycheck, but i mean no one who works for us appreciates her, and i really want to get her something that speaks how much i DO appreciate her, for christmas.

of course, with my budget, i don't have more than fifty or sixty bucks (and that's if i start looking now) to spend. so what do you get for the world's best boss, who, of course, also happens to have everything? last year i got her something for her lake house in the ozarks, but she is selling it this year, so that kind of cute knick-knack kind of stuff is kind of out. i had seen pictures of her lake house. i have no idea what her house here is decorated with. she gave us a gift card to a restaurant, and a manicure set (a NICE one) last year. but i just want to find something that is classy, but that really says i care and i am so glad you're my boss lol.

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you guys are amazing! and i TOTALLY win - i asked a question nicely, got nice answers, and am about to write a NICE "so what happened"! without blasting ANYbody...i'm so excited :) (side note - notice how few of you answered!! lol!) actually i'm super excited because i know what i'm getting her - tickets to our local dinner theater, which is called "the best in the country". we went in august and it was AWESOME. i think she and her husband will love it. thanks for all of the responses. i love the scarf idea too! so maybe i should tag this entry and use it in years to come. you guys rock! thanks again!

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A.V.

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What about a nice scarf? You could get one at TJMaxx or JC Penny's and not break the bank. Or a small thing and a very sincere card where you tell her how much you appreciate her and thank her for being the boss? If you ever have opportunity to tell HER boss she's great, do so. A good boss keeps people happy and keeps people employed. DH took a management class where they said people don't quit jobs, they quit bosses, and it's so true. I quit my last job for the boss.

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Everyone likes to hear how much they are appreciated. A well written letter on nice stationery would be greatly appreciated. Oprah Winfrey advises it to be one side of a page long so that if it is well appreciated and nice to look at, it can be framed. (Don't frame it for her though!)
A gift certificate to a spa would be nice. Sounds like she deserves to be pampered.

: )

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R.F.

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Well, how dare you have a wonderful boss in this crappy economy (you were looking for a snotty response :)!
I have been lucky to have several wonderful bosses. We sometimes went in on a group gift for boss's day (which is later this month!) - flowers and a spa certificate. On birthdays, we usually pitched in on a dessert potluck (and more flowers). If you are doing this on your own, I think a blank card with your own words would be lovely. Is there a particular charity that she likes? You can donate to it in her name.
Even something personalized - like a coffee/tea mug, engraved business card holder. The scarf (if she wears them) is a good idea, and you can get her initials embroidered on them (or a nice set of towels with her initials).
Sounds like you're both lucky to have each other!

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S.S.

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I would get her tickets to something. A musical or play she sounds like she works a lot and could use a night out. (can't we all lol) Maybe if you don't want it to be totally over the top get her a gift card to someplace like chili's etc for maybe $25 and tickets to a local highschool theater production or park district production and wala you have dinner and a show. she will love it.

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D.H.

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can I just say I'm jealous?? :-)

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D.F.

answers from San Antonio on

I HAVE ONE TOO!! I know how you feel about what to get them when whatever they want/need they get for themselves! The one thing my boss liked was a massage. It gave her time away from the office and much needed relaxation. That was years ago. We do a white elephant for christmas and she enjoys that cuz everyone gets involved. For her bday we go out to eat as a group too. Since you said she is very well put together you can be nosy and find out where she gets her make up. Macy's Dillards or whatever. You get her a gift card for that.
Whatever you do, say a prayer of thanks cuz you are very fortunate to have such a wonderful boss!!
Good luck and GOD BLESS!
D.

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K.P.

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Does she have a hobby or interest? Thoughtful and personal gifts are always well-received. How about a beautiful serving platter (holiday themed or not) with homemade desserts? Seriously- if she's busy and either entertaining or going to a party she will appreciate not having to buy/make a dessert. If she doesn't entertain or attend parties... more treats for her and her family!

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J.C.

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I had a fabulous boss once too. When I left his Dept. I gave him chocolates and a heart felt letter of appreciation. He told me the chocolates were nice but he loved the letter:)

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