Hi! My son will be two this weekend and weaned about two months ago. He still feels of me and reaches for them when he feels needy. That is okay with me. He goes to sleep in his big boy bed and wakes up around midnight and moves in with us (as well as our five year old). I am not a modest person-after nursing four kids, who is? The good news is that our 14 year old, five year old, and six year old don't check me out, but they still come to mama when they need me. My son will grow out of feeling of me like the girls did, but he will hopefully still come into our room when he needs us (a la daughter number three). Furthermore, when we are in public or at home, I discuss what he is doing with him by saying something about nursey-nurse and remember that Mom is out of milk. He usually says nursey-nurse all gone. I never notice other people. I had to put up with a lot in the early 90's, but either people are more accepting or I am just oblivious. Good luck!