2 Year Old Waking up at Night Randomly

Updated on January 10, 2011
L.W. asks from Florence, KY
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Hi Ladies
ANY Advise is welcome. I work full time and my Daughter just turned 2. With training (meaning Ferber/CIO) she has been a great sleeper up until recently. She talks VERY VERY well. Lately she has been waking up periodically in the middle of the night (sometimes at 4am sometimes at 5) screaming. its a strange cry and my assumption is bad dreams (or nightmares). I go in and she is standing up in her crib and yelling "MOMMY OUT, MOMMY OUT". I quietly unzip her crib tent and tell her "its night night time" and attempt to lay her back down. She wiggles and crys and screams "NO MOMMY OUT, MOMMY HALEY GET OUT".
This is where I am lost I dont know what to do? I will tell you what I have done is gotten her out and brought her into our guest bedroom (I refuse to let her in our bed) and I layed down with her in that room hoping she will fall back asleep..NOPE, she gets up and asks "whats that noise" or she will say "Haley Mommy in grandpas bed" or "where daddy go" or will ask to watch Tv. I try to ignore her and tell her again its night night time.
Please let me know what I should do when this happends. I am ALMOST wondering if I should lay her back down zip up the crib tent and leave..(like another CIO intervention) but I dont want to do that if its the complete WRONG thing to do and I would hate to put her through that if it doesnt work. any and ALL advice is appreciated.

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M.C.

answers from Cleveland on

My daughter started dreaming at this age. She would wake up crying several times during the night and I believe it was because she was afraid of the dreams. I don't think they were nightmares. She just didn't understand what was going on in her mind. It took a few months of me going into her room, checking on her, telling her that it was night night time, she was safe and I would see her in the morning. Like I said after about 3 months she went back to sleeping like she used to. She will turn 3 next week and some mornings she will wake up and tell me stories. I am pretty sure they are what she was dreaming about.

Some nights it would be 4 or 5 time. I was not getting any sleep, but eventually it slowed down. We also tried sleeping somewhere else, but my daughter thought it was play time too. As I said, it took some unhappy nights for a while, but we are all back to sleeping through the night on a regular basis and in our own beds. Hurray. Hang in there!

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K.W.

answers from Youngstown on

That sounds like night terrors to me. My daughter has had them periodically since she was about 2 she is now 5. Yes, they are scary and annoying. There is not really a way to calm her down. I usually just say "shh, mommy's here" over and over in my daughter's ear until she quiets down and will lay down again. Touching her or picking her up will make her cry worse most of the time. I still find her standing up in her bed when she has them. I have noticed a pattern with my daughter she seems to have them more when she is over tired and they will happen for 2-3 nights in a row when they do happen. Then back to normal sleeping. Good luck.

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S.H.

answers from Honolulu on

It is probably night-mares. Or night-terrors.
Different things. You can look it up online.
It is involuntary.

Developmentally, at about 2 years old... kids start to have night-mares and dreaming. Their cognition is changing and their imaginations.

My daughter and son would do that. But when they woke from a dream, I never 'woke woke' them... as they were still in a sort of sleepy not fully awake type mode. I did not talk to them or interact with them.. keeping everything dark and quiet. Then they would settle back down.

It is jarring. Yes.
But, its a phase. If this is what it is.

My kids are also just 'active' in their sleep... the talk in their sleep and make all kinds of noises.
My daughter, would actually sleep walk... in a sort of sleepy state... but then we'd just guide her back to her bed, and she'd go back to sleep. Not bringing any stimuli... into the picture as much as possible. Nor talking to her.

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K.W.

answers from Dallas on

it is probably "night terrors" much worse than nightmares, my son who is almost 2 has them too. and touching or talking to them makes the screaming and crying much worse. you might google night terrors and see if what she is doing is similar to the symptoms. good luck

C.W.

answers from Las Vegas on

It sounds like night terrors... or maybe some trauma. I am not looking forward to night terrors... from what I know intervening makes it worse so not being able to do anything would make me sad.
With her screaming like that CIO would be cruel in my opinion. She is terrified of something!!! My daughter falls asleep to shrek or some dvd... it's not traditional but it's how I fall asleep too because silence is creepy to me. Is it really a bad thing if she falls asleep to a movie in her bed so she doesnt sleep with you?

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