I Was Wondering If I Could Get Some Advice, Girls. I'm Scared.

Updated on July 26, 2011
A.C. asks from Diamond Bar, CA
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I had sex May 28th and I got my period in June and July. I got heavy cramps for both of them and they weren't light because I had to wear a tampon or else it'd soak through my clothes. I took four pregnancy tests and I read the instructions to heart. They all came out negative! But I'm feeling kind of sick right now. I feel like I want to eat but when I do, I don't want to anymore. I get sick of it. I just need some advice. What's wrong with me? And no I don't want to be pregnant!

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T.S.

answers from San Francisco on

Pregnancy isn't the only thing that can make you sick. If you've been feeling this way for a while then go to the doctor. You probably just have a stomach bug.

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L.F.

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Hi,

Its hard to tell. I would see your gynocologist and get an exam. That will tell you a whole lot. Hope you feel better soon.

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R.J.

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Nausea alone I can come up with a list from pregnancy to cancer, amoebas to zoonotic vector illnesses. Maybe a list of 200 causes ranging from infection, parasites, injury, nutrition, structural (like reflux). A doctor will be able to cross about 150 items off the list in a 5 minte Q&A and start testing for the other 50.

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D.R.

answers from San Luis Obispo on

This may be a coincidence and your symptoms could be something that you need professional counsel on or it could be you are just ultra sensitive to the possibility of being pregnant. Usually those pregnancy tests are pretty accurate but if you are still concerned, go to a free clinic and they will give you a blood test which will be worth it for you since it sounds that you are concerned and it will just give you peace of mind. Not to mention, you need to check out your health issues just to make sure nothing serious is going on.

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S.B.

answers from Redding on

Go to the doctor. That's the only way.
I had endometriosis and fertility issues and I never had periods. I wish I have a dime for all the pregnancy tests I took "feeling" like I was pregnant.
Never was.
I was scheduled for a hysterectomy and started feeling weird. I couldn't put my finger on it. I just really didn't feel right.
I was pregnant and that was the LAST thing I suspected. It was actually a shock.
If you are wanting to be pregnant really badly, any little symptom could make you feel like you are.
I went through that for years.
Strangely enough, when I'd given up and was pretty positive it would never happen, guess what?
It was the furthest thing from my mind.

Our hearts and minds and bodies can play tricks on us.
See a doctor.

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M.P.

answers from Portland on

Being scared and anxious about being pregnant can cause the nausea and sick feeling. Find a way to stop the fear. I suggest seeing a ob/gyn. There could be reasons for your heavy cramps and periods that need attention. Pregnancy doesn't ordinarily cause heavy periods. In fact, if a pregnant woman has a period at the beginning it's usually quite light.

Their is probably nothing wrong with you. However, the only one who can tell you that is a doctor. Are your periods a whole different than usual or are you noticing them more because of your fear? If your periods are quite different then I advise seeing the doctor. If you can't get past the fear of being pregnant, see your doctor.

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M.B.

answers from Los Angeles on

Well, it doesn't sound like you are pregnant. Your mind is a powerful thing and can play tricks on you. If your so worried, why don't you go to the doctor?
Good luck!

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B.C.

answers from Norfolk on

I'm peri menopausal (I'll be 50 end of the year) and I sometimes feel nauseous in the mornings.
This heat wave we just had wasn't great for my digestion either.
There's no way I'm pregnant.
Fluctuating hormones can be caused by SO MANY things it's impossible to list them all.
Make a list of your symptoms and see a doctor.
They can run tests and eliminate this and that till they get to the cause.
Could be a thyroid issue or any number of things.
Only a doctor is going to be able to help you figure this out.

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E.B.

answers from Beaumont on

Sorry, this is over my head but you need to see a Doctor. This could be a variety of things...Go get help!

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H.J.

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lots of things can make you sick especially worrying...and I am pretty sure you are not pregnant from sex on May 28.

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D.B.

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J.B.

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Go see a doctor.

Ask for a pregnancy confirmation by blood sample.

Best wishes-

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P.G.

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Go to the doc. We can't help you with this.

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