Hello Y.,
THANK YOU for sharing this!
I read your query to my son, who stated that it's much deeper than holidays, and more about daily practice. He asked me to share with you how we went about this.
I taught my kids to respect all faith's beliefs
and own their own hearts, to nurture their OWN faith
as it evolves.
I did this in many ways, including sharing myths, creation stories, and any children-level materials I could get my hands on. I encouraged them to listen to ALL stories of faith (in any environment) and LISTEN RESPECTFULLY for the similarities. (as in...where have we heard that flood/ark story before?)
I also taught them to understand that every is based on stories. None are entirely wrong or right. Faith is in one's heart, not a book. (books are tools to EXPLORE faiths, in my opinion). Belief is a relationship of an individual with the Divine.
I asked them to listen for the different names kids call their parents. (Pa, Ma, Poppy, Mum, Da, Mom, etc) In this they learned that different NAMES do not define different roles. All words for the Divine are valid. All faiths based on love are to be respected.
We celebrated Yule(Winter Solstice)/Christmas
and read books about other traditions too.
One of my children believes in Darwinism
and the scientific concept of the Big Bang.
She is 22.
My other child prays most at ease
upon his Native American path
with a witchy influence to support it. He is 16.
I was raised (VERY actively)in the episcopal church,
and found the undercurrents of my Eclectic Pagan Witch faith was woven together in its foundation.
I am an ordained minister who works with people of all faiths and I hope (and see) where such diverse practice
and support of one's OWN developing, evolving divine relationship has served my children and my clients.
HURRAY for your friends tolerance,
mutual respect and interest in bringing up
an inclusive and well influenced child!
People such as these are to be applauded!
(they are a fabulous example of HOPE)
Blessed Be,
S.