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Marriage Counselor
Nov 29, 2009 ... I do not feel that is a sign of the end...... If you want it to work, .... The problem made me feel used, abused and down right sad. ... The key is to finding someone both you and your husband trust and "click" with. ...
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- Hi M. I wish someone would have told me that being married was something you had to work on all the time! I think seeing a counselor or talking with your pastor mean...
- counseling is not a sign of the end. It's an act of unselfish courage for both the husband and wife. It takes trust, dedication and an ability not to judge as you open...
Questions on Teaching an 11 Yr Old. Sex Ed.
so, get your game plan together with your husband, there are lots of books ... movies, peer pressure, desire to be loved, or abuse. Many parents do not ... Till one day she got wise on me and said mom if it hurts why do you have 3 kids? ...
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- Go to http://www.justsayyes.org This is a website about "just say yes" to abstinence. There is a speaker on this web site I've hear a couple of times. Her name is...
- I remember coloring by the teacher's desk in 4th grade and a boy saying something to me (which I had no idea about). I was like WHAT and he said "you don't have to lie...
- First of all, knowledge about our bodies is NOT disturbing, in my opinion. I think you just get a book on anatomy and explain the basics. I also think it is a great th...
Bad Attitude "Nothing's Ever Fun!"
If you can't have a good attitude about it then we just won't do fun things for you. You'll get to stay home with a babysitter." also tell your husband how ...
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- Hi, S.. A couple thoughts jump to mind. First, gene pools are weird and strong. I see similiar phraseology of my kids, husband, and his family, too (more on that in...
- Pessimism is a learned behavior, but it still passes through family, because that's the environment. And I agree that you want to keep your boys from learning it. It's...
- My husband is not the same but similar he doesn’t what to do anything but once out doing something he enjoys himself. Your boys may be watching your husband and bel...
Bad Dad
Even if you are not abused in your current marriage, it sounds like you were before. ... You do not have to tell him that you're doing this. ... qualify for Legal Aid Assistance but I can't say since I don't know your husband's income. ...
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- I thought my situation was bad! You appear to have it far worse. My friend is a lawyer(not family law) and he gave me a couple of names of people he likes. They, of co...
- I adopted my daughter thru CSD and have also been a CASA worker. CASA workers are volunteers. They are not attorneys, tho I suppose an attorney could volunteer. A C...
- LUV to U R....I have read all the responses and would like to add only one important suggestion.....GET THE KIDS THEIR PASSPORTS!!!!!They can only get one and then he ...
4 Year Old Boy Likes to Wear Dresses
It could be harmonal or it could be learned as when someone is abused and don't .... Being gay has NOTHING to do with anything you or your husband will do. ...
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- Homosexuality is inborn. Having lived in San Francisco for 8 years, I have heard far too many horror stories of how young gay men and women are treated when they come ...
- Hi C., I can understand you concern. First I think you are right about the genes. I guess you can ask your son why he likes dresses and does he think they should be fo...
- Hi C., Sorry I didn't respond sooner. My aunt is a well known gender therapist and I asked her about your situation. She recommended a new book called The Transgender...
12 Year Old Step Son
Oct 2, 2009 ... I know that there is no sexual abuse going on, I use to be a sex ... Did the kids or your husband do any kind of counseling during or after the divorce? ... Also, make sure you tell your son every day what a wonderful ...
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- Wow! This is so odd, I'm not sure it's a real question and not joke. But just in case it is real... I think that might be doing damage to everyone in the family. My ...
- that is CREEPY - get some counseling for them and yourself
- My sister just stopped washing her daughters hair (while she was already in the shower) and she is 13. She started doing this because the daughter had such thick ratt...
Please Help!!!
I will be in counseling Tuesday and I will have the abuse-of twin in ..... If you love your husband and really do not want to walk away from that, ...
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- Hi there! I so feel for you... and I understand, so there is no judgement here. Please get some therapy for yourself. You deserve it and as a step parent myself I unde...
- You and your husband have to set the example on how you want your kids to be right? So be the parents you should be and teach , love, and get help that you need. There...
- I am a 56 yr. old woman that has raised 2 sons of my own and 3 (yes 3) stepsons. The youngest of these was a handful,always fighting with my son. So maybe I can offer ...
Mom Seekin Advice for Advice on Having New Boyfriend After Divorce
Sep 14, 2009 ... If the boy is being abused by the boyfriend and then the ... Now do you trust your boyfriend? Do you feel he is sincere about his feelings for your son? .... He may feel that your boyfriend has made your husband leave. ...
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- Dump your boyfriend. Nothing is more important than your children. Do not continue to put them in harm's way with a mean boyfriend. Lose him now.
- K. there is a lot of info missing, like how old your son is, so I'm guessing here and going on my own past experience. My husband was a single dad before we married...
- Hi K.- you haven't given a lot of information here, so I am going to give you some general advice based on my experience as a divorced mom ( my son was 4 when I got di...
Painful Intercourse
She said she sees it alot in women who have been sexualy abused or raped. ... Best of luck to you, it's a horrible thing for you and your husband to have to go through. ... Do you have painful and irregular periods some of the time? ...
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- It might help us to know what type of pain you are talking about. Is it dull, sharp, burning, etc.
- Hi J., You may have vulvodynia or vulvar vestibulitis. I highly recommend you call the UW Women's Health Care Center. Erin Mahoney, ARNP and David Eschenbach, MD ...
- J. , I was wondering the same thing ? what are your pain symptoms ? does it hurt inside ? outside? burning ? What do you mean that you read it is a common prob...
Help! How Do I Get a Band-aid off of a Beloved Stuffed Animal?
no help with the stuffed animal, sorry. but as for the toe - my husband is an .... you're almost done... Since this is the first time you are logging in to ...
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- I can't help with the animal either, sorry. However my 3 year old is terrified of bandages too. I got the tattoo band aids, he happens to love "Cars" which these we...
- I actually just had the same thing happen to my son, the toe part at least. He HATES band-aids and wouldn't let me put anything on his cut. I finally started putting...
- Goo Gone is good at getting stickers off of clothes (usually after they've accidently gone through the washing machine). It might help. You can probably find it at T...