Hi A. ... I completely feel your pain. I lied to myself towards the end of my pregnancy, saying I'd only gained 35 lbs with my son; however, I gained 55! When Noah turned 8 months & my birthday was looming in 60 days I got extremely upset that I had been wearing maternity jeans for over a year. (I had refused to buy Plus Size simply to fit in Something)
I had to get very serious about logging my food intake & I bumped up my cardio. I had been going to the gym, but I was doing more weight work than cardio, which is what I needed to kick start my weight loss. I am back to my pre-pregnancy weight, but still need to lose another 20 lbs (at least). It is a task every day ... I imagine that it always will be.
I know it gets crazy finding time to exercise ... right now I got to the YMCA (Northeast). Childcare is included w/your monthly fee & I've always found the workers to be great w/my son. The facility is definately family friendly as compared to other gyms.
Also ... Weight Watchers has an online chat board. You don't have to be a member to be a part of the "community." I use this often, even though I no longer do WW. Good motivation & it keeps me out of the kitchen!
Good luck! I wish I had the magic pill ... even when I was a pre-teen, I wished to fall asleep and wake up skinny.
L.