K.C.
My parents didn't allow me to talk to boys on the phone until I was in high school and I could only talk on the phone 30 minutes at a time after homework, not during dinner and until 8pm. Once my brothers were old enough to talk on the phone, my parents couldn't take it anymore so they got a second line for the kids. There was a major rule: if your brother/sister asks to use the phone and you have been on it at least 30 minutes, its time to get off and give the phone to your sibling. As well as not during dinner, homework, etc. As for talking to boys... now that I have a daughter and am grown I see my parents point. But I think also that if they have nothing to hide, you should be able to be near by to monitor until you feel you can trust your child. Best of luck to you!