Our daughter is now a junior in College. She did not want me to help her with her choices. She did ask that I help her gather her information for her college resume and all of our financial information.. She and I attended College information nights at her high school and the large college events held here in town to see as many college reps as she wanted..
I did not think I would ever be able to get her to write her College essay, but one night she sat down for about 10 minutes and all of a sudden asked, "what do you think of this?".. I read it and realized it was her essay! It was hysterical..
I had told her I had read an article about the people that read the college essays and what they are looking for. It stated they get tired of reading these essays about "changing the world" "about "how their religion has inspired them", unless they were planning on going to religious schools to preach.. It said they were looking for essays about the actual student and what it is like to be them. To be a teen, where they fit in or do not fit in.. that type of thing..
We did not go on ANY college visits until she had been accepted. She did not want to have her heart set on a school and then not be accepted. Plus we just did not have the money to /or time to go to all of them.. FYI.. Our daughter wanted to go out of state, so she only applied to one in state college.. We did this because we had a friend that was a freshman at TULANE when Katrina hit.. He would have missed out on his freshman year if he had not already also been accepted to the University of Texas.. We had another friend who's daughter became very ill her freshman year with mono.. Since she was accepted to college here at the University of Texas, she was able to transfer there for the rest of her freshman year and live at home during recovery..
Our daughter ended up applying and was accepted to all 9 of her college choices.. We then based her visits on which schools were her top choices and which offered the most financial help to her.. So none of the visiting part took place till the spring..
When your daughter fills out her FAFSA forms.. that will allow the colleges to see what she qualifies for scholarships, grants and student loans.. Make sure you have your 2009 tax information available and then ASAP get your 2010 taxes done so you can update this info.. Do this together with your daughter.. She needs to know all of this, because EACH year SHE will have to update this information for the following school year. She will be sent the requests because she will be of legal age.
She is totally freaked out and this is not unusual. Remember unless she is applying for early admission, most applications are not due till the middle or end of January.
What she will need.
A high school resume covering all 4 years.. Include interest, education, clubs, sports, work, volunteering, church service.. all of this type of thing.
Recommendation letters from 2 to 3 teachers. (get her to o these ASAP),, it takes some teachers FOREVER to do these or they only accept a few students. Remember to have your daughter write a thank you note to these teachers, I also gave gift cards to nice restaurants to these teachers once they gave the letters to our daughter.
She will need your financial information to fill out the FAFSA.. this can all be filled out online.
Have her get other information through the "College Board".. They are the people that gave her the SAT.. This can be done online..
Also make sure she is going to any information sessions held at her school for different colleges.. They really do help..
PM me if you have any questions.