Help with Naming Second Baby

Updated on October 31, 2009
A.G. asks from Arlington, TX
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Mamas - My husband and I are having difficulty naming our second daughter. We have four ideas but can't decide among them. Our friends and family are no help as they never tell us what they really think! So, I turn to you - which of these names do you like for a little girl:

Lola Jane
Tatum Celine
Libby May or Libby Sue
Gillian Claire

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So What Happened?

Thanks for all the great feedback. A little background on the name combinations:

Tatum Celine - Celine is my husband's mother's name and we felt of all the names we had it went best with Tatum. Unfortunately Celine is no longer with us.

Gillian is spelled with a G b/c I don't care for the name Jill. Also, her initials would be GG giving us a cute nickname option of "Gigi"

Lola Jane is just cute together

Libby May is because the baby is due in May.

We ended up choosing Gillian Claire and will call her "Gigi" for short. We like this name combined with our first daughter's name. We were a house divided with my favorite being Tatum and my husband's favorite being Lola - however Gillian was a second place choice for both of us so we are going with that. Thanks again for your help!!

A.

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K.D.

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A., what fun a second daughter. Congratulations! I picked my children's names from the meaning of the names as well as how I liked them and they flowed together. So not knowing the meaning of these, I like Tatum Celine or Gillian Claire (this one may cause spelling issues). You are very brave asking for help with this. Have a safe and healthy delivery, K.

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E.L.

answers from Dallas on

I like Gillian Claire. A lot of names that sound "cute" when children are little don't sound so great when they are older.

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T.S.

answers from Dallas on

I like Libby Sue the best. But I also like the name Claire. You have a tough choice to make. I think its neat that you are asking strangers their opinion. Perhaps will confuse you more than you already were. Lol.

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N.K.

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Gillian Claire for sure! But, I would spell it with a J.
Jillian or Jillienne Claire.

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K.W.

answers from Dallas on

Wow, it is amazing how much we put into naming our children. Names (words) have a very specific sound vibration and we really want that to match ourselves as well as our offspring. Picking 2 and saying them outloud over and over helps you to tell if that works for you. When you see your child see which of the sets of vibrations works best with the child and in that way you will have a name that matches your child. For the record I, also, love Gillian (or Jillian) Claire.
Good luck,
K. @ The Nestingplace

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Y.B.

answers from Dallas on

I like Tatum Celine and Gillian not Claire (Gillian is cute and the name Claire seems old) however its should be what you like best. Look up the meaning of the names as well, it should give you more peace in your decision.
Wish you well!!

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D.P.

answers from Dallas on

Oh my ...I love Gillian Claire...That is so cute! I have four kids, all married & ten grandkids..belive me I know a winner when I hear one!
Blessings....D. P

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R.P.

answers from Dallas on

If you are a Christian than this will not offend you. God tells us to pick a good name. I would research the meaning of the names.

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M.I.

answers from Dallas on

I like the name Lola and Celine. Why not Lola Celine or Libby Celine. Just a suggestion.

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M.L.

answers from Dallas on

My vote is Gillian Claire or Lola Jane (in that order).

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D.K.

answers from Dallas on

I think Tatum Celine is very pretty.

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V.B.

answers from Dallas on

I like Lola Jane, it's cute and refereshing like a summer baby. =o)

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L.S.

answers from Dallas on

I personally like Tatum Celine.

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H.S.

answers from Dallas on

I like Gillian Claire, but would spell first name with a 'J'. Also like Libby May, sweet name.

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L.S.

answers from Dallas on

Gillian Claire - great name!

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S.S.

answers from Wichita Falls on

I think I'd go with a more traditional first name - Elizabeth, for example - can be Libby, but she can practice law (or whatever) as Beth, Elizabeth, Liz - not just Libby.

Lola - Lolita?
Tatum sounds like a boy's name, although I've seen it on a few girls.
Gillian - Gilligan?

Kids are cruel.

ETA: /J/illian is probably my favorite. I'd spell it with a J, too though.

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C.J.

answers from Dallas on

I think Lola Jane is a pretty name. C.

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S.R.

answers from Dallas on

Hi A.,
I just wanted to respond to your request. My personal favorite is Tatum Celine, I think it's different and unique. I know whatever you pick will be okay for your daughter.

S.

B.C.

answers from Dallas on

Lola is adorable! I might steal it for my next baby!!

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E.C.

answers from Dallas on

Hi,I like the name Tatum Celine

L.B.

answers from Dallas on

I like Lola Jane! They are all cute though! Congratulations on having a girl! They are so much fun, although slightly more expensive than a boy :-)!

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K.S.

answers from Dallas on

Lola Jane or Libby Sue

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S.S.

answers from Dallas on

I love Gillian Claire.
I think I am old but the other names make me think of different things...like Tatum O'Neil, Celine Dion, Libby Soup, May Dept Stores, Me Tarzan You Jane, etc...
If nothing else, I hope this made you smile.

Good luck...we actually chose our 2nd daughter's first name, Zoe and then were stuck on the second name, we loved Zoe Grace but then we met a waitress at Texas Roadhouse, and she had just become an aunt of a girl named Madison...my husband and I looked at each other and it happened...we decided on Zoe Madison.

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B.U.

answers from Dallas on

I like Tatum, but not paired with Celine. My favorite of your choices are Gillian Claire. (We are having our 2nd this week and we are naming her Caitlyn Parker. Our first is Meredith Ramsey - just to give you a peek into my taste.) Remember it is a very important decision because you will have to hear and say that name millions of times in your life. I wouldn't worry much about what anyone else thinks, but spend lots of time saying the names out loud and deciding which one you love. If all else fails, wait and see which name you think she looks like when she is born.

Congrats and good luck!

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R.N.

answers from Dallas on

Congratulations on your new baby girl! I like Lola Jane!

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A.K.

answers from Dallas on

My vote is for Gillian Claire! Love it!

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T.B.

answers from Dallas on

I like Gillian Claire. It sounds so pretty together. Lucky you having a girl. Have fun.

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R.L.

answers from Dallas on

for all 3 for our children, when we found their name it was odvious! there wasnt a debate or anything! we knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that was what it was supose to be! if you are not sure about any of them i say scrap them all and try again

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K.K.

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Tatum Celine!
Lola reminds me of Lolita
Libby reminds me of Lizbeth
Gillian reminds me of X-Files...

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J.D.

answers from Dallas on

I really like Gillian Claire or Tatum Celine.

Good Luck!

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C.W.

answers from Dallas on

A.,

I love the name Lola, it was my grandmother's name. Her full name was Lola Mae. I like the combination of Lola Claire. I know that wasn't one of the choices, so hope to not add confusion. I also love the name Emily put with Claire. You have chosen old names and I think that is so great! Good Luck and congratulations with your baby.

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D.M.

answers from Dallas on

I like them in the exact reverse order of the way you listed them, but you are the ones who will have to live with what you choose, so you need to make the final decision!

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D.F.

answers from Dallas on

I like Tatum Celine. Good luck and let me know what you and your husband decide.

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C.E.

answers from Tyler on

A.,

I'm partial to Tatum Celine. My grandmother's name was Celine and she and I were very close. I also like Tatum. Both are very strong, but beautiful names. Good luck and congratulations!

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J.M.

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They all sound great but I like Tatum Celine.

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K.E.

answers from Dallas on

I love the names Tatum Celine or Gillian Claire!!! (Gillian Claire is my fav.)
If yall can narrow it down to just 2 names, then once she is born, and you can see her sweet face, I think yall will just *know* what her name should be, you know??
Best of luck (from a mama of 4)!!!!!
BTW when is she due and what is your first daughter's name??

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J.B.

answers from Dallas on

I like Lola and Tatum, but I like Lola the best.

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E.H.

answers from Dallas on

Lola Jane or Gillian Claire

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J.H.

answers from Amarillo on

When expecting our second child, my husband and I had trouble picking a name So we would call it one name for a week or so, and then try a different one. Right away we would seem to discard one, although we still liked the name it just didn't sound right for our baby. You may try this and see if any of the names are eliminated. Of course if you are about to deliver this won't help.ha

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M.G.

answers from Dallas on

celine clarie
call her cc if you like nick names

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C.G.

answers from Dallas on

My husband says Libby May. I say Gillian. Good luck

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S.M.

answers from Dallas on

Lola Jane sounds like a movie star

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K.B.

answers from Dallas on

Out of the four names you've presented I would pick Gillian Claire because it's a beautiful name.

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L.C.

answers from Dallas on

My vote is for Gillian Claire. Good luck!

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B.D.

answers from Dallas on

I like Gillian Claire. These were both on my girl name list, but we are having another boy so I have the same issue with the boy name!! Good luck.

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R.G.

answers from Dallas on

I agree with some of the other posters -- Tatum is cute but doesn't seem to go with Celine (works better with Claire). I like Gillian Claire the best! When I hear Lola, I hear the Barry Manilow song in my head.

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G.S.

answers from Dallas on

All names except the Libby ones are akward and hard to say. They are cute individually but coupled they are a bit of a tongue twister.

I am very attracted to Libby May. It is unpretentious. I would even say it completely when talking to the new one. It flows and evokes warmth and comfort. I would want to sit and play with ms. Libby May eveyday. :-)

Congradulations on the new one.
G.

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B.C.

answers from Wichita Falls on

LOVE "Gillian Claire"!!!

I also like "Tatum," but not so much with the middle name "Celine."

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T.P.

answers from Dallas on

Hi A.,

I like Gillian Claire the best. My five-week old is named Elizabeth Joy and we call her Libby. I love that name, but every time I love a name and think it is fairly uncommon, I see it in the Pottery Barn catalog! I'm guessing by the names you have in mind that you were looking for uncommon names.

Hope that helps!

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K.W.

answers from Dallas on

gillian is cool & tatum is good. I like names that kids can find on key rings & stuff. It sucks not to be able to get things with your name on it as a kid.

I just read Renee's response. I agree with her..you'll know it when you hear!!!!!!!

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S.W.

answers from Wichita Falls on

I like Tatum....its different.

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B.D.

answers from Dallas on

I think Tatum Celine is a beautiful name for a baby girl!

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J.B.

answers from Dallas on

I love Gillian Claire. Libby would be my second choice.

We tried practicing with all of the names out loud. That really helped us decide.

Good luck!

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C.G.

answers from Dallas on

ella jane is precious

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M.E.

answers from Dallas on

Tatum Celine or Lola Jane. Libby and Gillian are EXTREMELY common

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M.M.

answers from Dallas on

Gillian Jane - it has a ring to it!

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R.

answers from Dallas on

I like Lola Jane but my DH votes for Libby May. Our 2nd Daughter is Aubrey Mae, so I think he's a sucker for the name May/Mae.

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C.A.

answers from Dallas on

Hi A.,

Out of the four you listed, my very favorite is Gillian Claire.

Let us know what you choose!

C.

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A.T.

answers from Dallas on

Tatum Celine is beautiful! I'd go with that!

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D.L.

answers from Dallas on

Lola is pretty maybe another middle name,but please not Libby Mae or Sue.

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P.M.

answers from Dallas on

Gillian Claire ~ very nice.

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R.M.

answers from Dallas on

Congratulations A.! My choice is Gillian Claire, in fact I love it!
Best Wishes & Take Care of you & Gillian.
R. M

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C.F.

answers from Dallas on

When we had trouble picking out our third child's name, I listened to the way her older brothers said them...we liked them all anyway thus the problem picking, so we went with the name that sounded the cutest coming out of their young mouths (Jacob Matthew is 5, Christopher "topher" Andrew is 3, and Allyson Susan is 10 months)...plus they felt involved which I think is important.

I have never heard of Tatum before? Does it have a special meaning to it?

I love celiene or Lola as first names

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T.C.

answers from Dallas on

You need to decide for yourself. Who cares what anyone else thinks or likes or dislikes. Not one person knew any of our 4 childrens names until they were born. Drove my mom crazy though! I wouldn't have it any other way. Think about it- do you really want to know what your friends and family think about your names. They are smart to stay quiet!

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C.C.

answers from Dallas on

I like Gillian Claire

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Y.F.

answers from Austin on

Congratulations and I vote for Gillian Claire!
-Y.

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A.R.

answers from Dallas on

I think Gillian Claire is a beautiful name!! Sounds like a true princess!!

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E.S.

answers from Dallas on

I happen to like Tatum Celine or Gillian Claire...I like Gillian Claire best though. Hope that helps!!:) Tell us what you decide!:)

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S.W.

answers from Dallas on

Definitely Tatum Celine

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M.J.

answers from Dallas on

No question about it.... Tatum Celine!! Very cute.

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G.B.

answers from Dallas on

First of all, good luck with your decision and congratulations on your baby!

Next, a previous responder had vetoed Libby and GIllian as too common. However, if you check the popularity of all 4 names on SSA.gov (which is the social security websites and should be considered the most comprehensive and correct list because everyone has to get a ssn) tatum and lola are much more popular than the other two.

However, I really like Tatum and Gillian, possibly Tatum would be better with Claire. I know Lola is popular right now especially in Hollywood, but most of the people we know still said "sounds like s stripper" when an acquaintance named their new daughter this a few months ago. I did like the suggestion of listening to how your older child says the name you want to use and letting them have a voice in the baby's name. Good luck and let us know your decision!

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C.S.

answers from Wichita Falls on

Everyone has something that comes to mind when they first hear a name... for me, Lola is a friend of mine's cat's name, and Libby makes me think of canned pumpkin:)
I vote for Gillian Claire. Good luck!

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E.S.

answers from Dallas on

Lola is a name with connotations--not ones that you want to put into people's heads. Libby is darling and Gillian Claire is a good combo--why are you spelling Gillian with a G? Normally it is a J--think about how names work in the future--will she be continually correcting her name spelling? Or worse--the pronunciation? Tatum will make everyone think of Tatum ONeal--is that someone you admire? If so--cool. Names are so important!

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T.H.

answers from Dallas on

Definitely love Tatum Celine or Gillian Claire.

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M.C.

answers from Dallas on

I really like Tatum Because I like names that are different. But the middle name Celine does not sound good with that.

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N.O.

answers from Dallas on

I like Gillian Claire!
Let us know what you decide.

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E.D.

answers from Dallas on

For me, it's Giliian Claire by a mile.
Good luck!

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M.B.

answers from Dallas on

Tatum Celine or Gillian Claire either would be a cute name. We have 4 kids and the process we went through was thinking of how kids could make fun of their names (because it will happen when they get older!!). Your best bet is to try the nick names people will call her, then start eliminating the names from that. Hope that helps.

Mom of 4 wonderful kids.

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J.U.

answers from Dallas on

I love the name Gillian Clair but like the spelling Jillian more. Good luck

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V.M.

answers from Dallas on

Tatum Celine would be my choice from your selection. But you need to pick the one you are most comfortable with using. Try haveing conversations for a day with each name with your unborn child and see which one you really like the best. Good luck.

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K.K.

answers from Dallas on

Lola Jane is adorable. I also love the name Tatum but Tatum Celine just doesn't roll right.

Good Luck

P.S. I was going to name my fourth daughter Liberty Faith and call her Libby.

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M.E.

answers from Dallas on

Hello A. G. I think all those names you have chosen are good, but you also have to think of if your daughter can pronouce the names. I like Lola Jane.
M. E.

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N.T.

answers from Dallas on

Lola Jane is too cute! And it sounds spunky and flows nicely together. Gillian Claire is lovely also. A little more formal, some might call her gill for short so you have to think about that. But it also flows well. We have one son, Oliver Edan, age 8. So I love to think about girl names! Thanks for sharing the opportunity!
Nan Tomboni

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T.T.

answers from Dallas on

I agree with Tracy...I like Gillian Claire it sound pretty together.

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D.C.

answers from Dallas on

My only advice to you is to think about how it will sound when she walks across the stage and receives her degrees.

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K.C.

answers from Cincinnati on

i like lola jane i think that is absoulutly adorable i also like the names:
K. nicole -my name
delaney grace
paisley claire

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