Well.... within reason & the confines of good health, no I do not care what my Husband looks like.
He looked like heart-throb when we met, and although older now and a tad heavier & has less hair, I still think he is the bomb.
Throughout my life, I have not dated guys... because of their looks.
I have turned down many GOOD looking guys, because I was not impressed with them. And my friends would think I was crazy.... because all the girls wanted to date them because they were, so good looking.
I had also gone out with guys, that others would consider to be.... not good looking at all.
I had also gone out with guys, that were VIP's, a professional skateboarder etc.
It really does not matter, how good looking a guy is or not.
It is, in the eye of the beholder.
For me, personality is counted more.
Of course Ephie... if my husband or anyone I cared about, let themselves go... really in a bad way.... I would tell them.
Gaining too much weight, not cutting their hair... not keeping up with personal hygiene... is to me... not about 'looks' but about... MENTAL issues.