It is time to make sure you begin modeling mistakes and how to respond to them. Whether you make the mistake or others make the mistake, discuss, it happens and it is no biog deal..
Examples.. If you make dinner but forget to put the drinks on the table. "OOps, I forgot our drinks. Who can help me? I guess I made this mistake because I was in too much of a hurry to eat. "
"I must have forgotten because I was talking on the phone, instead of paying attention. "
At the grocery store, you drop something., "Oops, butter fingers. I seem to drop things all of the time. Thank goodness this is a can. If it was glass, it would have broken,. Good thing grocery stores understand when there is an accident, You just tell them and they will help clean it up."
Run late to something other than school.. "Yikes I am running late! I will still drive the correct speed limit, but I will just apologize, I just could not get ready any faster because of that phone call." "Next time I need to tell grandma I need to call her back."
Or "Tomorrow I am going to make sure my clothes are ready the night before."
Or
"I need to remember to just buy gas when the car says it needs gas and not wait until it is totally empty. By then it is too late. "
Also mention to the teacher that your son is a bit sensitive to these things.
I totally recall in the 4th grade our daughter sat a table with 4 girls. The teacher requested the homework and none of these girls had their homework, they even insisted she had not given homework.
So the teacher asked the class, Did you all have homework due today? "Yes"..
SO the teacher asked the girls, "why do you think everyone else heard about the homework, but you 4 did not? I will need to take a "smiley from each of you". Well the girls all burst out crying, they admitted they had been talking. But our daughter was devastated.. this was the very first time she had ever lost a "smiley" in all of her school years. She was completely mortified.
I mentioned this to the teacher and she laughed. She said all 4 of the girls, this was their first loss of the smiley face,
The teacher told the girls, "everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect." She then told the girls, "Look at my desk, should I have a smiley taken away?" Her desk was a messy disaster. So the girls told her "yes, Your desk is messy!" So the teacher made a chart for herself.. and each time her desk was messy, they were allowed to take her smiley. They also offered to help her remember to organize it.
As parents it can be hard to admit mistakes, but just like teaching a child how to tie their shoes, we need to teach them how to react and that no one is perfect and that is ok. We just try to do our best and we do not care what others think, because we do not judge others when they are doing their best.