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Just Need Someone to Listen
Asked by J.F. from Providence
on August 17, 2009
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My fiance and I have been engaged a little less than three years.... We have a 13 month old together and it seems as though we are doomed. we cannot get along AT ALL, ...
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- J., So sorry you are going through such a tuff time. I suggest that you do the old Pros and Cons list for you will be able to focus on real issues at hand. The ...
- J., Sorry for the stress you are going thru. First if you have been together and made this life for yourselves you would be entitled to child support and posibbly ...
- Perhaps take a week to each write down everything you liked about each other when you first got together. Anything and everything, from silly (that crazy shirt he wor...
Sad Children
Asked by R.M. from Melbourne
on July 21, 2009
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Hi Moms,
My husband left us about 2 weeks ago without warning, I do not know why he left. My question is my 3 year old is now wetting herself, waking at night scream...
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- Wow, this breaks my heart. There was really no warning? History of depression? This is a nightmare and i am so sorry for you. Just patience, love and time I think....
- Has he done this before? How could he do this to the children? You can't help but to let the children feel sad. But you, yourself, have to be strong and do what nee...
- oh, that is a tuff situation. if you have insurance try to get them some therapy on how to cope. if you do not have insurance and are apart of a church ask them if t...
How Do I Talk to Him About How Unhappy I Am
Asked by A.S. from Phoenix
on June 16, 2008
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I am having a hard time talking to my boyfriend about how unhappy I have been lately. I am dealing with alot of issues and feel very un supported. We have an eight mon...
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- Amamda, After I have been married for 13 years sice 20 years old. I have been through the same grueling schedule with now 3 kids. It gets worse before it gets better -...
- Wow, all I can say is welcome to the real world. Relationships take work. I do beleive in marriage so I am not even going to address that one with you! You are young ...
- Hi A., In reading your post, I am a little confused about what it is you truly want from him. Do you want to talk to him about how unhappy you are? Or, do you wan...
Super Fustrated
Asked by J.S. from Atlanta
on June 7, 2009
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This is like a super long, and confusing story, but I really need to vent!!
OK, History********
I have been dating the same guy for the last three years. WE met whe...
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- Fisrt off, I know that this is easier said than done, but you have to rest and take care of yourself. If not for you, for your children. Being that your body is stil...
- Hate to say it, but sounds like he is "using" you. He used other women. I know ecomomy is bad. Ask him to help out more around the house. Write down what you do and ...
- J......Girl it sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now! I think the best thing for you to do first and foremost is: PRAY! Then you have to WAIT/LISTEN (for ...
Relationship Falling Apart!
Asked by B.K. from San Francisco
on January 19, 2009
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Hi Mammas,
I guess it's safe to say i have reached a point of dispair and need some encouraging words. I am a 23 year old mom to my first baby, a 4 month little boy....
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- Hmmmm this doesn't sound very good my dear. Are you married to the father? Did you live with him before the baby? I hate to say it but men aren't always showing you th...
- When I got married I started couples counseling right away. It was not business as usual, even though we had been together for 5 years before we were married. It was ...
- What wonderful words of advice from Diana! The only thing I have to add is that in addition to feeling overwhelmed he may also be a little depressed? Men can get postp...
I Am Worried About My Marriage.
Asked by T.J. from Kansas City
on May 29, 2007
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My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years. We have four boys 7,6,3,and 1. My husband and I have hard our problems in the fast. We got married our senior...
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- If you need to talk, let me know...my husband is currently deployed also. I have to agree that he is feeling left out. Usually when the soldiers leave, the world (a...
- I agree with the other two replies...I would wait till he is back to have make the decision to end the relationship. Maybe try and talk to a counsler or pastor. I ha...
- Hi T.. My husband used to be active duty I wasn't with him at the time. Anyway from what I hear the biggest thing that men worry about while they are over there is the...
Husband Angry When I Deny sex...HELP!!!
Asked by S.G. from Philadelphia
on March 6, 2008
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Lately I have been feeling very neglected and unappreciated by my husband. Granted, the past few days he has been putting in an EXTRAORDINARY amount of time with the ...
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- So, I'm now divorced & never had the issues you speak of...my ex never pushed for sex, maybe that's why I'm divorced :-) What I learned was that we need to state, s...
- This is a very common experience between couples. There are several things going on here. Typically, part of this is a struggle for each person wanting to be right i...
- Girlfriend you are not alone!!!! My soon to be ex-husband was the same way. I don't know if it is a "man" thing, but they seem to be able to have sex without feeling...
Depressed and Seeking Something More...
Asked by A.C. from Tampa
on January 17, 2008
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I'm a little leary about posting here because I'm not looking for a bunch of religious fanatics telling me I need God or whatever. I get that business enough from my s...
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- Hi, I'm a single mom with a wonderful son who is 8 years old. My son is learning delayed, hearing and vision impaired. It has now been 2 1/2 years since my divorce...
- I am not going to tell you find God, but you do need to find someone and that is YOU! I went through something similar with my kids father, I was so obsessed with h...
- The good news is you are still socializing. I have a medical problem with depression, and though it's been a while since the last episode, I get to the point where I ...
Need Relationship Advice, Please.
Asked by C.M. from Melbourne
on September 9, 2008
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Hello everyone.
I really did not know where to turn for help on this one. I hope that you all can give me some advice or encouragement.
My boyfriend of almost t...
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- Hi C.! If your relationship was stable, you would have gone to him with the information in the first place. I'd say you have trust issues if you would break-up a 2...
- C., You need to call him and let him know that you would like to sit down and talk for a minute. If he is willing, let him know that you are deeply sorry for brea...
- I question why you would have believed the other person over your boyfriend in the first place. Did you have reason to suspect him of cheating? And why are you so eage...
10 Month Old Hates People!!
Asked by R.M. from Los Angeles
on June 3, 2009
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My almost ten month old baby girl seems to suddenly hate everyone except for my husband, myself, my mom and dh's mom. She was somewhat selective since about 8 mos whi...
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- R., I am just echoing what others have written - I have 10 month old twins and yes, stranger anxiety is part and parcel of the 10 month old agenda! It is a sign that...
- For children, "strangers" are anyone that they don't know and see often. My son is nearing his second birthday and he still wants very little to do with people that h...
- Hi R.: Your daughter doesn't know what the word HATE means.She's flattering you,her dad,grandma,and your close friend,by displaying her full trust in you.Its funny,b...
