Maintaining the Relationship
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4Yr Relationship What to Do Im Not Sure?
Asked by L.H. from Milwaukee
on March 30, 2011
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I've been with this man for 4yrs we have know children togeather but he has 2. I love him very much . The argueing has gotten worse n his drug habit has also gotten w...
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- I have a friend who just got out of a seven year relationship that sounds a lot like yours. It took him threatening her kids, and her kids telling her that they were...
- Sorry to say this sister but he is using you whether you can admit it to yourself or not- I can say that because I have been there is same situtation, however I was no...
- If you're not sure what to do then now is not the time to be trying to have a baby with him. If he's involved with drugs he's not really someone to have around childr...
What to Do About 4 Year Relationship
Asked by M.E. from New York
on March 11, 2007
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I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years this coming April 16th. My soon to be 6 year old son, loves him to death, and sometimes slips and calls him Daddy. My boyfr...
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- M.: People that get a second job are people that have a terrible time making ends meet, which from your request doesn't seem to be the case. You have a 6 yr old so...
- Hi M., The first thing that comes to mind after reading your story is that your boyfriend doesn't appear to be ready, or want to get married! It sounds like he's got ...
- do not get a second job.. the only person to suffer with that is your 6 year old. You boyfriend sounds to me like he makes excuses for his own fears or whatever it is ...
Teenage Daughter and Her Father's Relationship
Asked by J.S. from Cleveland
on March 29, 2008
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I need sugestions as to what to do about my 16 year old daughter and her father's relationship.My husband is an awsome father, but can be a little strict at times when...
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- Everyone's comments are great. But also you must consider that if you are arguing against your husband or taking your daughter's "side," she will notice immediately an...
- Hi J., you have gotten some really great advice! As a mom of teens (2 girls and 1 boy) -- and experiencing some of what you mentioned, I would have to say the most im...
- My dad was very strict when I was growing up, and we had our arguments and there were times I thought I hated him, but it all passed and we have a great relationship, ...
My Relationship Has Fallen Apart!
Asked by M.R. from Lakeland
on October 3, 2007
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I know this may sound like something that should not be on here but there is a category for it and I am completely distraught! I recently kicked my boyfriend out and f...
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- M. Without knowing why you kicked him out it is a bit hard to give your advice on how to get him back. If it was something to do with being unfaithful or harmful t...
- Call him. Ask to meet with him (without the kids) and explain to him why you thought you should do what you did (was it spur of the moment over heated anger? what tri...
- I noticed you did not write about why you kicked him out. There was obviously a reason for it. Think about that reason long and hard before asking him back. And whe...
Husband's "Work" Relationship
Asked by M.B. from Kansas City
on March 31, 2009
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Hi Ladies, my husband has been trying to help this girl at work. She has some family issues and is having a hard time not driking...etc. He has referred her to HR to...
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- From past experience communication of this sort is always inappropriate. I would put a stop to this at once. Kids are a blessing, but the husband wife relationship nee...
- M., If all that's going on is texting, then I really doubt anything else is going on... yet. You have every right to be concerned. Get to the bottom of it now be...
- I wouldn't like it either or feel comfortable if it was my husband in this situation. Your husband needs to tell her to get help somewhere else. If he's not a counselo...
My Relationship and My 2Year Old Son
Asked by B.C. from Omaha
on April 7, 2008
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Okay I read the responses to my request and they were something to think about thank you but I just need to set the record straight really quick. My boyfriend and I ha...
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- B., I only read the 1st few responses and stopped b/c I didn't feel like reading any more negative things. I wanted to tell you that if you guys love each other and a...
- First of all be VERY proud of yourself for having the strength to raise your son by yourself and still work on your education. Good for you! If you and this man real...
- B., Your son and I have the same birthday! :-) If I were you, I would make your son and your educational goals your highest priority right now and not date anyo...
Mother/adult Daughter Relationship
Asked by A.M. from Washington DC
on February 13, 2010
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My wonderful 29 year old daughter lost her job due to the economy. She has always been a hard worker. She moved to another state and staying with a male friend. I'm...
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- I was adopted when I was 3 mos old and my being adopted was something that was never kept from me. When I told my parents I was interested in looking they said they w...
- I hate to say this, but maybe there really isn't anything that is a problem at all. Perhaps she is extremely busy. Oftentimes that happens to people and the time kind ...
- A.: Hello! I've not read through the other responses so if this is a repeat - please forgive me. You are a VERY good mother for being so concerned - sometimes our "...
Relationship Problems with My Adult Daughter
Asked by V.S. from Sacramento
on May 18, 2008
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My 25 year old daughter seems to have gone through a change in the last year. We have always gotten along well and been very close. She does have a history of big tem...
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- V., It sounds like you have a very spoiled, self-centered daughter. My husband and I had somewhat similar problems when we had to explain to our adult children that ...
- V., I am so sorry you are going through this as well as so many others that have expressed their sympathy. I am a 32 year old with a daughter and a pretty good relatio...
- Assuming she is not just being a spoiled brat or overstressed, it is very possible she has developed a drug/alcohol problem or could be suffering from bipolar disorder...
Need Advice on Relationship
Asked by R.J. from Chattanooga
on November 21, 2006
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i have been dating this man for almost 3 years. i am bipolar and have trouble with it from time to time. he says he understands but he doesnt. when i get depressed he ...
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- R., Not to sound mean or anything...This guy is NOT for you...he says he understands what you are going thru with the bipolar disorder and then says those things for ...
- R., I am also bipolar. Mine currently is very well controlled and I function very well most of the time, but I have had a few episodes during the past few years. ...
- honey you are reading into this too much. we as women well lets just say our minds go all the time. where a mans mind doesn't. the best thing to do is go with your ...
Teenage Relationship Advice
Asked by T.R. from San Francisco
on November 19, 2007
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My 15 year old daughter confided in me that she and her boyfriend have become sexually active. My feelings are that, although I am not ok with it, I don't think that ...
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- HI, I suggest looking up Dr. Phil's website he had very strong opinions about that on his recent show.
- Dear T., You have already done as much as you can. You can be supportive to both of them. Life is so hard for young people nowadays - that they cling to each oth...
- Hi T., I can relate to your concern. I have a 17 year old and we are going through the same situation. I am alot like you in that my daughter told me and they are both...
