How Do We Stop This Problem

Is she his friend on myspace???? If she is I would ask that she be removed. Also, if shes not, there is an option to block people. They have no idea you have blocked them, but you just dont receive messages they send you. I would ask hubby to do it since its bothering you. I wouldnt be happy either.

Get off myspace. If this is not an option, just ignore her. His constant response to leave him alone gives her the attention she wants. Ignore and she'll eventually stop.

Stop looking at myspace and block her as a contact or delete your account all together.
Problem solved.

Block her, he can set his myspace profile to private and unfriend her, and when she is blocked, her messages won't go through.

umm why not just get off myspace all together??? IF your husband truly wants to be left alone by this woman.. then leave myspace. join something completely different..

this is an easy one: if he really wanted her to stop he would close his myspace, maybe he likes the attention!

As far as I know he can block her from his MySpace so he needs to do that. If he seriously wants her to leave yall alone, that is the best thing to do. Perhaps then she'll get the message because as long as she's getting SOME kind of response from him, it may keep her hopes up.

Well, out of respect for your relationship he should take her off of his myspace friend list. That is disturbing. Have a serious, loving talk with him. Tell him your not jealous and you trust him, but it's just not OK for her to continue talking to him in the way that she is. You didnt say whether they share children, but if they don't I would tell him he needs to knock it off and that she is trying to piss you off and it's working. OR, you can trust that he doesnt love her anymore and is probably annoyed by her and he doesnt really realize how much it's bothering you and maybe you shouldnt let it bother you. Make sure you have a cute picture of you and your hubby as his profile pic...... he does belong to you afterall. It really just sounds like a dumb game on her part and she sounds desperate and that is not flattering. Your hubby is sharing the info with you and if you trust him, just laugh it off and not let it destroy you and hubbys friendship. He probably is expecting you to show some self confidence, don't let her destroy your character.

get rid of the myspace and set up a facebook account. FB has an excellent privacy set up so he can make sure that the sneaky ex won't come in contact with him, unlike myspace can.

Just ignore her.
And block her.
That's it.
Your Husband, has to do that. And then actually do it.

Ignore her? Sounds like the most grown up thing to do. If he is messaging her back then she is getting what she wants, attention. Tell him to completely disregard anything from her.

Put her out of your minds. Don't open anything she sends you and never reply to anything she sends you. When you say your prayers ask the Lord to help you block her from your thoughts and minds and get on with your lives and FORGET all about her. She is part of the devil's play to drive you up the wall and DON'T let her succeed.

Tell him to block her, then she cant message him any more on myspace that`s what I had to do....

So the vote is in...block her. I think she is a typical case of want her cake and eat it too. She wanted to have her sexual encounter with another woman and now she is not getting the machismo from the woman so she is going back to him trying to regain what she lost. I am sure he does hate her.

He close his current myspace and reopen it under a different name. Hopefully it is not a business he is using it for.

Why is she his friend on myspace?

Sounds like they need to grow up!

One of two things is happening...A. she's crazy, and she's actually stalking your husband, like for real. B. your husband is duping you. He is encouraging this somehow, perhaps he is in communication with her in a way that you are not aware. Don't be so quick to dismiss option B - some men can be real weasels about the ways they treat women. And the reason I even bring it up at all is becuase I wonder why the easy solution was not already addressed...delete the myspace account, and don't reopen one. That way, there is NO option for this woman to find your husband, and, of course, if she comes knocking, you have the option to call the police and issue a restraning order.

Edit your account settings and change it to another email address and change the first and last name under "account name". It's easy to do. I don't even use my real name on MySpace, I have chosen a TV Sitcom character's name. All my cousins and friends know it's still me :)
As for all of those "delete it" moms, MySpace is a great way to share photos and keep updated with the younger relatives across the U.S. (fyi, my cousin's granddaughter). Normally I wouldn't chat with a 10 year old on the phone that I never met, but I love commenting and congratulating her on her recent WebKinz score or her what she wants to dress up for Halloween :)

My heart goes out to you, I had the opposite problem, I was oblivious to the fact my now ex husband was keeping in touch through email with his high school sweet heart who finally (we had a very rough patch due to my emotional state and adding a new baby to the our family) helped him decide to leave me and our 9 month old almost 2 yrs ago. He was married to her 6 months after our divorce was finalized. Now that I am happy and with a good man who loves both my son and I , he takes every opportunity he gets to try and upset me.
In your case I would first close out the myspace and or Facebook accounts, let those you want to keep in touch with know before hand that it is going to happen and if you feel you must have one, open it under a name she wouldn't recognize as the either of you, then be sure that only friends can view your page and must be approved as friends before they can message you.
If she continues, your husband may have to file a restraining order.

Easy, just get rid of the MySpace account. MySpace, Facebook...thats just a few places where "fake friends" hang out. True finds actually use the phone and call or come over. Sorry, just ranting. Just get rid of the account

been there done that--cancel the myspace account.