Gross Hair

Updated on November 30, 2010
L.P. asks from Uniontown, PA
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Ok, so I've asked this question before, but I'm hoping to get some fresh ideas on this one, because it is really bothering me...

I have shoulder length (cut since my last post on this subject!) basically straignt hair. It's not exactly fine, but I don't have a lot of hair. Anyhow, I've always kept it on the longer side, never shorter than chin length. And all my life, I've had "normal" hair. Until now. It used to be that I could easily go at least a day without washing, with no sign of greasiness whatseover. Maybe by the second day of no washing, it would start to look a little greasy, but if it was a ponytail day, no big deal if I was not going anywhere, right? But all of a sudden, like within the last 6 months, my hair is SOOO disgustingly oily! If I wash it in the morning, by THAT EVENING, it is already TOTALLY GREASY! I mean, noticeably greasy - like stuck to my head greasy! It's embarrassing! By the next morning, I wouldn't dare even attempt to have a ponytail day without washing because it looks like an oil slick!

Last summer, I had gotten a loose wave perm just for a change... it's completely grown out/cut off now, but I had been using moisturizing shampoo and conditioner to keep if from feeling/looking too dry from the perm. So naturally, I thought it must be too heavy for my not very thick hair, so I switched to a bodifying shampoo/conditioner, thinking that would be the 'lightest' kind to use, and that would surely solve my dilemma. NOT! After trying now 4 different brands of bodifying shampoo/conditioners, I still have this problem! I'm at a loss as to what to do!

There have been no noteworthy changes to my lifestyle/eating habits that I can come up with that could account for this change. No change in diet, no change in environment, no change in styling products, other than switching shampoo/conditioner. And I don't use a lot of product in my hair since it's basically long and straight. I might, on occasion, use a little hairspray, maybe some mousse if I'm scrunching it, but that's about it!

I've tried washing the roots, and only conditioning the ends... still greasy. I've tried no conditioner at all... still greasy. What's going on here, and what am I going to do about this? Seriously, last evening when I got home from work, I was embarrassed that my hair was already greasy and looked terrible! Please help!!

Any thoughts or suggestions? Am I doomed to deal with this forever? I dread asking this, but could this be due to hormones/aging? I'm 37...

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on my gross and embarrassing problem!

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So for those of you suggesting vinegar, what kind? White?

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J.P.

answers from Los Angeles on

My scalp was SOOO oily that I wash my hair every day. My SIL can go a week and I can't even fathom that!

I stopped using conditioner and my scalp is not as oily. It was a tough decision, because I had always done it. I stopped using any products with parabens in them, as they are waxes. Organix has an entire line that is paraben free.

I have super long hair and found that my hair looked and felt healthier. I use nothing else on my hair than shampoo....paraben free, phenoxyethanol free and sulfate free.

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M.L.

answers from Houston on

I'm a stylist. Greasiness is due to oiliness in the scalp, that sudden change can be due to hormones and will likely change back in a few months. What often happens is, you have a very dry scalp and the lack of good scalp care has caused the oil glands to overproduce oil to overcompensate. Here is more info on that, and some excellent advice on how to correct the oily scalp problem:
http://www.suite101.com/content/oily-hair-care-tips-a18839

"A common misconception about oily hair is that it is caused by an oily scalp. The exact opposite is usually true. A dry scalp causes the oil glands in the scalp to produce more oil, and once on the scalp, this excess oil transfers to the hair itself. Therefore, to treat oily hair, one of the best things to do is focus on the dry scalp.

Below, you will find some hints and tips to help manage and care for oily hair:

* Use a mild shampoo, shampoo for oily hair, shampoo for dry scalp, or a baby shampoo
* Wash oily hair daily, but concentrate the shampoo on the hair away from the scalp to remove the excess oil from the hair, not on the scalp itself, because this can dry the scalp even more
* Always rinse your hair thoroughly with cool or lukewarm water, because soap residue can make oily hair worse
* Use a hot oil treatment directly on the scalp itself, gently massaging the oil into the scalp and then rinsing the oily hair thoroughly afterward
* If hair is very oily, do not use conditioner at all, or use conditioner only on the tips or ends of the hair
* Oily hair is likely shiny enough, so avoid using hair gloss gel or shine hair care products on oily hair
* For extremely oily hair, a vinegar rinse, comprised of one (1) part vinegar to four (4) parts water can help remove oil from your hair, but be sure to avoid using vinegar on the scalp
* Don’t brush oily hair frequently, because brushing oily hair can actually cause the scalp to produce more oil
* Don’t rub or scratch your scalp when you have oily hair, because stimulating the scalp like this can produce more oil
* Diluted lemon juice can provide similar results to the vinegar rinse for oily hair with a much more pleasant scent

Shampoo that contains tea tree oil can work well for alleviating dry scalp, if dry scalp is the primary cause of the oily hair. While diet has little affect on hair itself, eating a healthy diet and drinking plenty of fluids can help with dry skin and scalp too, and since dry scalp causes oil product that can lead to oily hair, diet can affect how much oil your scalp produces. Drinking water is not only good for your oily hair and dry scalp, but it's also great for your skin health too."

I'm one of those that cannot go a day without washing, makes me so jealous when I do women's hair and it still looks good a few days without washing.

In any case, Body by Sebastion is a good volumizing product for fine hair.

Make sure that whatever product you are using, it isn't a heavy, deep conditioner. Oftentimes, volumizing products just add more bulk and gunk to the hair, which is why many of those volumizing products don't work.

This is some expert advice that is well written, so I'm just going to copy and paste it here:

"Many people mistakenly think that shampoo is to wash the hair and not the scalp. Actually, shampoo is designed to clean the scalp and beautify the hair. Thus, my first recommendation is to focus your shampoo on your scalp.

The key to controlling oily hair is to keep the PH balance correct with the right shampoo, and remove the sebum adequately from your scalp. To do this you need a shampoo that will tell you when this has been accomplished. A sulfate free shampoo will not foam when it is removing large amounts of sebum. It will only foam when you have removed everything that needs to be removed. If you have long hair you should apply the shampoo to the scalp without piling the hair on top, and use your fingers to vigorously massage your scalp. Excessively oily hair always requires two shampoos, sometimes three. The way to tell if the oil has been removed from the scalp is to note the foam produced by the shampoo. You can discontinue shampoo applications when the shampoo
freely suds, then work it to the ends of your hair.

If you need to Wash you hair daily for frequent sebum removal then do so, and do not use a conditioner on your scalp. Sebum is a wonderful conditioner, and additional products are not needed. Any conditioner applied to the scalp will only increase the speed with which oil is produced. You should only use a conditioner at the ends of your hair where it is driest, and keep it off of your scalp.

You also want to be careful that you are not drying out your scalp. Shampooing too frequently and overly hot water will dry out your scalp. This will cause your oil glands to compensate by overreacting and producing more oil. If you have hard water, you will need to use a clarifying shampoo once a week. Hard water deposits minerals that will eventually clog the follicles on your scalp, thus causing it to overreact the same way. You may find that shampooing daily will become unnecessary once you begin to correctly shampoo with the right product.

Another habit that may increase the appearance of oily hair is frequent brushing. Combing and brushing aid in the movement of sebum from the scalp down the hair shaft. The hair should be handled as little as possible.

Hair styling products when used on the scalp will block the hair follicle and cause it to become overactive to try to remove the blockage, so don't use
moose, gel, or spray where it can sit on your scalp.

So get in the habit of shampooing at least twice, only use conditioner on the ends, or the dryer parts, and don't over brush your hair.

The products that I recommend for you are Enjoy Sulfate Free Shampoo, Enjoy Clarifying Spray, and Zerran Moisture Pak Conditioner.

http://askville.amazon.com/shampoo-oily-scalp/AnswerViewe...

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A.S.

answers from Detroit on

I could be due to hormonal changes... However, try a clarifying shampoo and a mild moisturizing conditioner. I cannot go a day without washing my hair. I change my shampoo/conditioner weekly. I have a few different shampoo/conditioner combination to keep my hair from 'getting used to' one combo. I notice a hair change when the colder months come around because there's no sun to dry it out, the heat is on and that can make me sweat at night, and my grey (which keeps getting more and more) have a completely different consistancy then the rest which makes my 'hair life' more difficult.

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B.C.

answers from Norfolk on

Changes in hormones can definitely have an effect on your hair/skin.
A clarifying shampoo will remove everything.
Instead of a conditioner, try rinsing with a half water half vinegar solution after shampoo and before your final rinse. It leaves nothing to coat your hair, but it makes your hair very soft and shiny. My scalp loves vinegar. I use apple cider vinegar, but white distilled will work the same.

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S.C.

answers from Fort Wayne on

I have hair like that. If I use too heavy of products it looks icky icky icky. Try to get a clarifying or stripping shampoo. You might have a build up of products on your hair that regular shampooing isn't getting off.
Use products for fine or thin hair. I love Suave or Tresseme (sp) for my hair. Stay way from things that are moisturizing, volumizing, or any other buzz words. Never ever use Pantene. It coats your hair with a wax. I think other volumizing shampoos do the same thing. Just use a regular shampoo and conditioner. If you're still having problems, talk to your beautician and see what they recommend.

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D.P.

answers from Pittsburgh on

Hi L.,
(LOL--Again! hahaha)

Just a thought--are you using an oil control type of shampoo now?
Do you "need" a conditioner? If so, try this: condition first, then shampoo. I know, sounds weird, but it HAS snapped my hair out of a funk a time or two.
Good luck!
O. other extreme measure: try a shampoo with Dawn Dish soap. That will get any/all product out of your hair for sure!
AND O. other thought--once when I got a new "ionic" hair dryer, it made my hair really weird--like greasy or it got greasy faster--are you using O. of those?

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T.N.

answers from Albany on

Hi L., sorry 'bout your gross hair!
My hair used to prefer being washed only every other day as well. Now it smells bad when I skip a day (well I mean it smells like dirty hair I guess).
Sucks gettin' old.

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E.S.

answers from Asheville on

I don't know that I can help, but I can share! I have always had hair that I washed once or twice a week. After my girls were born I went throught the regular hair loss etc.
All of a sudden, when they were about a year old my hair was ALWAYS gross. I went from having dry, corse hair to very oily, limp, lank, disgustiong hair that couldnt stay clean one whole day. It was so depressing. It was just one more thing I had to do EVERY day now, instead of twice a week.
It lasted about 2 1/2 to 3 months and suddenly went back to normal. I still have no idea why it happened or what made it return to normal, but I'm glad it didn't last.
I wonder sometimes if it was extra stress, because at the same time we found out that my FIL had cancer, my hubbys job was being deleted and the girls were now mobile and a much bigger handful.
Are there any extra stresses in your life right now?
Oh, yea, we also found that my blood pressure and blood sugar were creeping up fairly quickly which caused me to sweat through my scalp sometimes adding to the grossness.
Good luck, I hope you figure it out!

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J.P.

answers from Chicago on

Would it help to use the dry shampoo during the day if you feel it's gotten too oily? I think that it's supposed to get rid of oil, and you don't need water, so maybe that would help between washes?

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M.A.

answers from Detroit on

I use a daily clarifying shampoo/conditioner with a little baking soda added every day.

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L.A.

answers from Austin on

Your hair does not need conditioner on the scalp, it only needs it at the ears and below.. Never use shampoo with conditioner already in it if you have an oily scalp..

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K.B.

answers from San Francisco on

It could be due to aging, but that doesn't mean you have to live with it. I would experiment more with the brand of shampoo, and stay away from bodifying or other shampoos with purpose. You need stuff that is low in chemicals and rinses clean. Pantene, for example, coats your hair shaft to feel silky and smooth, so you could be adding a layer of gunk that you don't need. And those "volumizing" shampoos could be doing the same thing.

I have similar issues, although the grease appears mostly around my face, in my bangs and on the sides. I always wonder if blotting papers for my facial skin would help, since I imagine that some oil is clearly transferring from skin to hair.

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D.S.

answers from Allentown on

Hi, L.:

Check the web at
www.dermadoctor.com

see if they have any products for oily hair.
Good luck. D.

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