Considering Going Back to Work...

Updated on March 01, 2009
J.C. asks from Oklahoma City, OK
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My son is 13 months old and I am thinking about going back to work, but I am not sure if I will go full or part time. My husband and I said at first we really didn't want to put him in daycare, but the more I think about it I am starting to wonder if it wouldn't be a good thing for my son. You know, to at least get him ready for preschool and all of that.

Has anyone else waited a year or more toenroll their child in day care and if so, what was the result? We have a pretty good routine at home and I don't want to freak him out, but at the same time we could really benefit from having to full incomes again. We do alright on one but there are a lot of things we could do more of if we had two, plus to be honest, I kind of miss work. Then again, I don't...so I'm confilcted. Working partime would be a good option, but sometimes I think it'd be kind of a hassle to go back to work just to go part time, because then we'd just be working around my husband's very varied schedule.

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S.M.

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Work from home! Solves all the issues - you can be with your son, have more money to afford to do fun things and have money to put him in classes if you so choose - NOT because you HAVE to! :) I've worked from home for 3 years now, make a great income, and my kids come FIRST! I'd love to help you do the same, too.

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S.R.

answers from Hattiesburg on

Hi I have four sweet little boys and I stay at home. I am scared to do the daycare thing. But we go to church and they go to sunday school and children's church. But I wanna feel like I am helping with the finances and rearing my children so I am working at home. I just started and so far it's been flexible and I am bringing in alittle extra money. I am not rich by any means but I can buy some groceries. If you wanna know more my website is www.sarahs4sweetboys.com. My hubby works in the oilfield so if i went to work and put the kiddos in daycare then we would never c each other. So if you wanna know more about my buisness let me know. You do have to work and treat it like a buisness. But no overhead no risk and no expensive investment and no deliveries or inventory. Hope to hear from you soon.

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A.S.

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After the birth of my second son, I opted for someone in their home in lieu of daycare to return to work. It was wonderful. Then, I immediately got pregnant again, my little girl also went to the sitter's house. I loved the fact that they got that attention and she was like part of our family. About a month ago, the babysitter quit and I had to find a daycare. I was very nervous about daycare. My kids are 1 and 2 going to daycare for the first time and they LOVE it. There are so many kids to play with and new things to do. Plus, my 2 year old has started talking so much about EVERYTHING! I hated to think about putting them in daycare as newborns but now that they are a little independent and aren't put in a crib all day, they have the best time. Also, think of all the artwork you will have. I framed my kids' Valentine's pictures and gave them to their grandparents as a special gift. There are many pros and cons but I'm sure you will do what's best for your family.

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B.B.

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J.,

Sometimes I read these posts and find that we need to put daycare in different categories. Consider a NAEYC accredited child development center which stands for the National Association of the Education of Young Children. There are only a handful in the Birmingham area to my understanding. The teachers tend to be educated and the curricula are outstanding. They stress art, outdoor play...

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Birmingham Working Moms Examiner

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C.T.

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Hi J.,

I know where you are I was there but I stayed home with my son until he was 2 and half years old and I thought it was going to be rough on my son but it was harder on me. I go to work 3 hours a day and he goes to school. He loves it because he is with children his own age.

I hope you find something that works for you and your son.

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