R.S.
Hey E.,
My name is R.. I have three children, 16, 7 and 4. My husband and I have been married for eleven years also. Like you my husband is a stepdad to my 16 year old. We started dating when my daughter was 2 years old. We had the same problem, but it happened before we got married and for about 2 years after we were married. I think what helped my husband and daughter, was that we were alone just the three of us for about four years before my seven year old daughter was born. It's been kind of hard now that she's been a teenager. But it's just been the attitude she has that has caused the two of them to argue or for her to get upset with him. They are the best of friends and she thinks the world of him, I think that sometimes she forgets that he's dad and not a friend. It gets hard sometimes now during the teenage years, but I think we'll get through it. I think that you and your husband just need to have a little bit of patience and you'll get through.