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7 Year Old Son's "Curiosities!"
Asked by J. from Chicago
on November 25, 2007
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Yesterday my 7 year old son did something that I NEVER would have expected and attempted to do a Google search for "Naked Girls." I know he is just naturally curious ...
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- J., I have a 5 year old boy and a almost 3 year old girl. They still take baths together out of convience. My kids are curious about everything so when it comes to ...
- Wow! Do you have a block on your internet? If not, I'd get one right away. That seems really young to be interested in naked girls. Did he mention why he's interested...
- I agree that that is a young age to think of doing that. I would find out where he got the idea to do it from. Most likely boys at school were talking about it. The...
Inappropriate?
Asked by S.C. from Los Angeles
on July 29, 2011
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My friend who has the girls(10,7,4,1) and my kids are (11,10, 6).
Both of us were having a conversation and her kids were around, running back and forth etc... My fri...
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- I'm 100% with Tracey K. It's not vulgar, it's inappropriate as you said in your SWH. My son is about to turn 12 next week & I can tell you that this would bug me a wh...
- IMO this was very insensitive to your sons being there and his feelings. She should have waited till you were in private!
- Not something you talk about in front of kids... it is the parents choice when and how to talk about with their child not others. I would have come very close to wa...
Masturbation
Asked by M.S. from Washington DC
on February 24, 2010
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My Mom caught my 11 year old son exploring his private, how can I explain to him about this matter?
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- No, telling your son right now is not the right time is not the right thing to say to him, he can't help what his body is going thru he must be thinking well when is t...
- this is very natural & he shouldnt be shamed about this.......and dont be naive to think this is the 1st time he did this........get him a book so he doesn't feel like...
- You need to reassure your son that it's perfectly normal but also private and only for him and that you apologize for walking in on him (that's if he was in his room) ...
What Do I Do About a 12 Year Old Who Is Hiding Women's Underwear in His Room?
Asked by J.H. from Alexandria
on July 27, 2007
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I just went in my 12 year old's room to pack his clothes for the weekend. I was looking for his PSP that he hid from his older brother to send it him. I found a whole ...
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- First of all I'm no expert, but from all I have read and all that I know about life, masterbation is perfectly normal. 12 is also probably about the age where boys (an...
- J., I have no boys of my own but I do have a 13 year old brother and he's never been caught going through our mother's underwear. No, unfortunately, I don't think what...
- I am raising one boy, 15, as well as three girls. At 12 and 13 that is all he was doing, in his room locked for hours, in the shower forever. I took the approach of ...
Did I Do the Right Thing?
Asked by D.J. from Atlanta
on May 13, 2011
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O-M-G! I caught my 12 year old son masterbating! He had started locking his door and now I know why. I told him that there are no locked doors in this house and now I...
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- I REALLY hope you are not acting this upset in front of your son. What he is doing is normal, and he locked his door. You violated his privacy and now you're acting ...
- We have a 'no locked door' policy, but we ALWAYS knock first... now you can imagine why :) I would personally just say 'sorry about that, it won't happen again, I was...
- My youngest in the house is 15. I have four boys I have raised with the oldest being 23 now. My house has a no locked door policy. All of the children understand and u...
RE: To See or Not to See
Asked by C.A. from Atlanta
on July 21, 2009
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This is a long one-as usual...lol. I will try to shorten it though. My twin girls are 6 years old. When they were 4 1/2 years old my hubby and I decided to take weeken...
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- My kids would never be allowed to be in a room alone with those kids. And get them a new councilor. And put it to your husband this way, this kid violated his daughter...
- My advise is going to be much different than the advice you're being given! Therapy is NOT always the best thing. When my daughter was 4, she came home from Christ...
- Find a different counselor! Then, get a family visit as well as one with just the two of you (no twins) so that you both can get your cards on the table regarding wha...
Child Has Sexual Desires
Asked by C.W. from Reno
on July 16, 2009
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I have a five year old girl she masturbates at night before going to sleep (I understand its normal and to relieve stress/ it feels good). I talked to her about it and...
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- I know you get a lot of advice and it is all good. As a mom, one of my biggest fears is predators. I think the statistics are 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 5 boys. That is ...
- Not to scare you, but you need to make an appointment with the pediatrician ASAP to have a physical done to see whether she has been sexually abused or molested. This...
- I'm one who does not allow my children to touch themselves. Curiosity is normal but allowing them to touch themselves because it's 'normal' is something I do not agree...
2 Year Old "Playing" with Self
Asked by J.K. from Springfield
on March 6, 2008
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Help! I have a two year old son who has begun "playing" with his genitals. Is this normal for boys at this age? I expected it...later, when he is like 10 or 12, but ...
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- Hi J.! I feel your pain. I have two boys of my own. Just last night my 3 year old was laying in our bed watching tv, drinking a sprite with his hand down his pants....
- it's normal. we talked to our son about only doing this at home. we want him to have a healthy outlook on masturbation, that it's not dirty but private.
- I am not a doctor, but I would have to say you need to ask his Pediatrician about this. I would have to say that this is a very young age at two years old your son sho...
Anyone Out There Surprised to Learn Their Child Has an Active Facebook Account?
Asked by S.D. from New York
on October 27, 2011
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My name is Sue D., and I am (still!) working on an article about parentings and kids on Facebook. Has anyone out there realized only after the fact that their child or...
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- Nope, all my boys asked first. We all have an account and are eachothers friends. We have had the accounts for going in 2 years. Boys are now 20, 17 & 16.
- My daughter, now 11 created a FB accout when she was 10 without her mom or I knowing. Her mom made her take it down immediately. Almost all of my daughters close fri...
- I set up my son's account FOR him. Husband and I gave him the rules for using it, and if he breaks them, his account will be gone. He's had it for a week, has over...
6 Year Old Asking Where Babies Come from [And More]
Asked by M.A. from Orlando
on June 15, 2009
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My 6 year old is a bit of an organizer. When we moved into our home I gave him my old desk, not realizing exactly what was in it. I knew I needed to clean it out thoug...
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- Please stop beating yourself up about this. It could happen to any one of us. We had a similar situation happen with our daughter. I won’t go into details, becaus...
- I think you are being way too hard on yourself. I came from a family where talking about sex was taboo. If my sister or I entered a room where the "grown-ups" were t...
- Kids are naturally curious. that's how they learn. One of the talks parents most fear is the birds and the bees talk. Just give him the basics, ask your husband to hel...
