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The Value of a Picture Book: 3 Life-Lessons Your Child Gets From Stories

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Empathy

Reading a book is a unique opportunity to see the world from another person or thing’s perspective. When a child reads a book, whether it is a fantastical story about an object come to life or a very real article about a neighboring country, he or she becomes a part of that world and sees life, however briefly, through the eyes of another. Children are uniquely able to accept and invest in the reality created in what they are reading. Chicken Sunday by Patricia Polacco is one book that can help cultivate empathy. In this book, Patricia Polacco shows how friendship can cross racial and generational lines, as she reminds us to always strive for truth and justice for ourselves and others. By reading varied stories and texts from diverse authors, our children are exposed to the unique points of view of many different people and learn to empathize with people in situations contrasting greatly from their own. Another wonderful book for thinking about empathy is Roni Schotter’s Mama, I’ll Give you the World. In this lovely story about a girl who wants to give her mother a very special gift. As stories like this one demonstrate, empathetic people are kinder to others and listen more carefully to those around them. It is a wonderful gift books can give.

Community

Great children’s book authors recognize that children have extraordinary power to shape their own worlds. Through reading, you can give your child a sense of his or her own power in shaping and creating a powerfully loving community. A Chair for My Mother by Vera B. Williams can help our children to think about how importance kindness and generosity is in a community. Whether it is in the family, at school, in the larger communities of sports or friendship, stories show your child that he or she does not have to wait to become a grown-up to impact the world. Amber on the Mountain by Tony Johnston shares the story of two little girls who become friends and how one teaches the other how to read. This small gift makes a big difference in both their worlds. There are so many wonderful stories that help our children understand their own capabilities and also appreciate the communities of which they are a part.

Importance of Imagination

Imagination is a powerful force. It can give our children the power to transcend their environments, invent new ideas, develop breakthroughs, and believe in miracles. Books invite us to indulge our imaginations. They help us to cultivate them and they allow imagination to take a place of esteem and respect. Dream Carver by Diana Cohn, a story of a little boy who is inspired to create new toys based on what he imagines, will encourage children to be inspired by their imaginations and not let others discourage them. As a child reads a truly remarkable story, they are picturing that world in their mind’s eye and flexing their imaginative muscles to create a world of their own. Harold and the Purple Crayon by Crockett Johnson allows children to enter another child’s imaginative world, while reinforcing the value of their own creativity. Imaginative books nurture our children to grow into people who invent and innovate, who conceive and create.

Pam Allyn is the Executive Director of LitLife, a nationally recognized organization specializing in transformative school improvement through literacy education. Pam is the author of an inspirational and practical book for parents, teachers, and caregivers entitled What to Read When, which was published by Penguin in April 2009. She lives in Hastings on Hudson, New York with her husband Jim and two daughters Katie and Charlotte, as well as their dog Emily Dickinson and cat Eleanor Roosevelt.

Editor’s note: Leave your thoughts and children’s book memories here for a chance to win a copy of Pam Allyn’s book What to Read When: The Books and Stories to Read With Your Child—and All the Best Times to Read Them.

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I love what you're saying about children's books! As a psychotherapist and author, the picture books I write offer messages in the story and rhyming verse. They contain questions following the story for parents, teachers and older children to discuss.
My Bent Tree is a story about diversity, friendship, conservation, and social action and The Inside Story is about recycling, change and the mail system. Both of these books won Honorable Mention at the Green Book Festival...

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reading to my childrn brings back memories of imparting opportunity to develop a langage for expression. i loved listening to my children read stories to me. the engagement was breath taking

I wholeheartedly agree with you and am very passionate about books and reading with and to my children. I once had friends with a little boy who was at the time several months old and when my husband and I asked if they read books to him they said no because he can't sit still and all he wants to do is put the books in his mouth. We tried to stress to them how important it is to read to your kids but they just didn't get it and we gave up...

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This is fabulous! My three year old twins love reading and I love reading books with purpose. Another favorite book of ours is the Paper Bag Princess which I think is great for any little girl.

Love your stuff! I read them while I drink my morning coffee! I just finished reading Peter and the Starcatchers with my ten year old--it was wonderful! I write, too, and would love to share my website with you as I write along similar lines...

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I started reading to my boys when they were babies. Now they are avid readers - we go to the library twice a week. Books also take you to different places, worlds, etc. when you really get drawn into the story. Great article.

I am interested in publishing a chilrens book, however, I don't know how to go about it, is there someone who can direct me where to turn? I am so eager to get this started. Warmest regards, Sherry.
P.S. Love this article!

I am really thrilled about Pam Allyn's book. I love to read and share books with our new daughter. One of my earliest memories is of reading the Little Golden Book "The Shy Little Kitten." I know my success in life is largely due to the emphasis my parents made on education and more specifically reading.

Thank you for reminding me of the importance of reading to my 3 year-old! She's our youngest and in our busy household, it's hard to sit down with her to snuggle and read--even though it's one of my very favorite things to do!

I remember getting one of my very first new books through a Reading is Fundamental program when I was in 1st grade. I got the book 'Goodnight Moon'. Everytime I have read it to my kids, I recall the feeling of have a crisp, new book that was all mine as a child. :)

Reading is so wonderful for parent and child alike! The effects of TV story and imagery requires parent interpretation for the empathy factor. Some stories are so overwhelming......but protecting until appropriate age often leaves the child even more vulnerable. What challenges we face!

It was all Nancy Drew for me, and now my daughter is reading them which is fun, talking about the clothes described in the book and the way they talk back and forth. Books are the perfect way to get away from an annoying little brother it seems.

Kirby Larson recently visited my children's school. Her books "Nubs" and "The Two Bobbies" are great non-fiction stories. "Nubs" tells the story of a dog in Iraq that adopts a soldier. A heart warming story that also help kids understand what it's like for our soldiers. The effects of Hurricane Katrina are shown in "The Two Bobbies"...

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This is lovely! Thank you for this wonderful post. I've been reading to my baby girl since she was 4months inside my belly!!!and now she's 4 and a half months old and loves it when I read to her. Yes, sometimes hse wants to eat the book, but sometimes she attempts to turn the pages for me and looks at me with attentive eyes when I finish reading each passage. I'll definitelytry to get the books recommended here as well =)

Books and reading were a huge part of my life growing up. Dad often read aloud to us from newspapers or books he was reading. Mom made it a priority for us to be able to order books through our school book orders. There were always books around our house. Maybe that's why I have such an extensive collection. There are so many wonderful children's books that I can never choose just one favourite. It's a joy to share books with our child...

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Wish your book had been published 25 years ago. Ah me, guess I can use it for any future grandchildren I may have! My childhood memory is of my father reading from The Orange Fairy Tale Book. One of my favorite fairy tales was about a good sister receiving a gift for her kindness in the forest of a hair wreath with singing birds so tiny you couldn't see them...

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