WV Public School Teacher Bullying

So What Happened?

Currently I called the school tuesday and today and left messages both days. The secretary today informed me that the principal was in training and would be back tomorrow. She assured me she would relay the messages and make sure it is the first message she receives. We don't have a vice principal and most of the time no one in charge is there. When I talk to her I plan on telling her that I thought I had given her ample amount of time to set up another meeting. I am going to tell her if I don't have the meeting by friday or sometime MWF (the days I've learned that all parties should be at school) I will be taking all my recordings and the WV Bullying Law, WV State BOE, WV County law, and enforce the school to right a clear bully code in there handbook which is already a law. I will make sure they follow the law already set forth. I didn't want it to come to that extreme but I feel that they are pushing me that way. I will not be afraid to use the law or the media to protect my/our children. I believe all children are sacred. By the way My son generally doesn't get into trouble and he doesn't pull any cards at school. This teacher has never made a complaint to me against william and no one has ever told me they have had any problem with my son beside doodling on his notebooks. Since the Wed this first happened my son has been sleeping in my bed. He has been fighting with me about going to school which he formerly loved school. Now he is begging to be homed schooled but I feel children need to socialize with other children. The Assist superintendent called the principal the day we set up the apology meeting and reprimanded both the teacher and the principal for discussing the issue public which let to her students and her bullying my son, and he's been talking to the guidance counselor. He thinks I'm just making things worse. Originally I just wanted the teacher to apologies to my son and tell him there are better ways to handle the situation than what she did. I than wanted the school to keep an eye on her and extend her a hand out to her because obviously this is a stress out teacher for one reason or another and her stress is getting the best of her. I also don't think it is too much to ask to put a note in her file so heaven forbid there is ever a situation like this again someone else already has evidence and the teacher should have a hard look at then. Teacher are not holy than everyone else they are human. They make mistakes but sometimes a mistake is a sign of things to come. Sometimes people just need to unite to make a change. I just want to keep our kids safe. Kids should always feel safe at school, home, and churches as far as i'm concerned and our children don't feel this way. They are crying out for a voice to say they are important and they don't deserve to be treated this way. Thanks so much for everyones comments!!! I will be checking back constantly. I thought about bringing in blank greeting cards and encourage the teacher to write a compliment to everyone of her students in her classrooms and one for my child. That's if and when we ever have this meeting what do you think of thegreeting card idea. I thought of donating a bunch to my child's teacher and see if she will encourage the students to write nice things about each other. Well the principal called today and she said that she felt since so much time had past and it's the holiday season we should just forget about the meeting and move on. She said she didn't call me back to let me know her decision because she has a lot of other problems at the school to deal with not just mine!!! and than she hung up on me SHE HUNG UP ON ME. I called her back and told her that I had been recording all of our phone conversation and asked if I should take the tapes to the BOE she said she would call me back by the end of the date with a time for an meeting that she would have to check with all parties plans and that she PROMISED to call back by the end of today. Well she called me back and told me that she wasn't able to set up a meeting for friday but she would get a hold of me later. I asked ever if the teacher couldn't meet us tomorrow why didn't she ask about Mon, tues, wed, etc.? She said I wasn't ever going to have a meeting with Mrs. Hall and that Mrs. Hall is not a part of this. I said what do you mean she isn't a part of this and I said in the stundent handbook it says ask for a meeting with the teacher through the principal and you will have one in a timely fashion. She said she is calling in other people that she couldn't get a hold of and that person so she couldn't set up the meeting? I ask who this person is and she said That" I didn't need to know who it was but that I had better be prepared!! " What is that suppose to mean? I am just trying to make sure my son is safe at school and is treated with basic human rights. I have never used a curse world and have never threaten anyone? Why do I have to be afraid of but the retaliation my son is already going through.