I have read all the other responses and I can say many things but the main thing is that the decision has to be yours. Do your research. I did mine. I am due in October and I would love to do a VBAC, however, within my research and having talked with mothers and medical professional's, my decision is to do a repeat c-section.
I can't go back to my first delivery but whoever is having their first child without any complications, you should go to a birthing center.
Hospitals today do not let a woman labor. I have thought long and hard and I still go back and forth.
In my mind I having the reoccurring dialogue between me and my ortho twenty years ago that said that I would have trouble in labor, I did. I looked at my xrays and I asked my doctor, "is that where the baby comes through,?" It was so tiny.
My son who is now 3 was only 6,6 when he was born. I shouldn't have had any problems with him coming out. He just would not budge through my birth canal. I also went into preterm labor. Pitocin and I do not mix. My body does not fare well with a lot of drugs. I would have continued to push but I thought to myself which is more important my stubborness or my baby.
My doctor who I have now is great. He is not the doctor who delivered my son. If I wanted a VBAC, he was willing to refer me to a doctor that will do one. I have already found one. I will mention her later.
One of the medical professional's that I spoke with who works at the NICU at Jackson Memorial said that she has witnessed too many brain damaged infants in her career; this isn't from VBAC but from vaginal births in general; which brings me to my next point. A friend of mine, her brother-in-law is an OBG and he said when a VBAC goes wrong it goes very wrong. You don't know if that person will be you or not. You have to take all this into consideration.
The woman at Jackson has had 3 c-sections; she wasn't willing to risk her babies.
But remember, she was like me, she has a tiny birth canal.
I actually wanted to have an MRI done but for the last few years I've either been pregnant or breastfeeding, so I wasn't willing to risk any exposure to my son or now my baby girl.
The decision again has to be yours. I'm also at risk for going into preterm labor again. I do not and can't be put on pitocin.
All this said, my husband doesn't want me to go through the pain that I went through with my son. I had a really tough labor. I didn't like being induced. My last doctor said, "if I let you labor, you would give birth in about four days." Well, isn't that what woman used to do.
It's hard to believe that hospitals won't let you labor for as long as it takes but they will let you take on the extra monetary responsibity of a c-section.
I say if you have absolutely no complications, then go for it. This is my last child as far as I know. Oh, I wanted to mention this, if you plug into a search engine, "VBACs that went wrong or something to that nature, it will give you the other side of VBAC's.
One woman said, she wished that she could go back to the decision of having a c-section. She lost her baby. I heard that a couple of times. Again, you don't know if you're at risk so make sure that you don't have any issues such as high blood pressure, gestational diabetes, or the other medical issues that can come up during pregnancy. Remember the most important people to take care of is you and your baby.
Also, be positive. Dr. Skeete was willing to do a VBAC for me but she also said that anything can happen like the baby can be breech or some other circumstance, so you have to be prepared.
I also know that no matter how you have your baby, having a baby and bringing new life into this world is empowering.
I remember thinking after having my section, wow, that's the way to have a baby. I recovered very quickly from my section. I know in my heart that I'm healed and that my uterous won't rupture but I'm not a risk taker.
I have very intense pregnancies and so if I can see my baby into this world as safely as possible, then that's the path I'm going to choose. Also, my body has a mind of it's own, this baby could decide to come out on it's own and that's fine too; however, I always say, my son changed his mind. My doctor told me that he found him way back up in the uterous.
Also, I do know people that have had VBAC's and they went very well. Florida is tough. If you were up north, there would be no problem. A friend of mine was in the throws of her VBAC when her baby was breech; she was disapointed to have another section but you have to do what's safest for baby.
Remember that you're baby can be deprived of oxigen but that's with any vaginal delivery. I'm glad that doctor's are up on their surgeries. Can you imagine if sections weren't done and you had to have one done by doctor's that weren't schooled in them. My doctor did VBACS for 18 years but because of his insurance, can't do them any more.
Here is a doctor that will do one.
Dr. Delisa Skeete. She is off of 441 in Fort Lauderdale. I absolutely loved her but I switched to my doctor's practice specifically for him. I can't tell you how many women and husband's love him. I didn't want to give that up.
Best to you.