Need a Solution for My Dog Situation

L.,

I feel for you. Have you tried enclosing part of your yard just for your dog? Like a big dog run area with a dog house and toys etc that your daycare children cannot access? And then let her out after your work day is through.

I had a border collie mix who was so energetic she would literally jump up to look in the kitchen window when she was in the backyard (and much more). Anyway I also did daycare at the time, and this worked for her since she felt like she had her own 'safe' place to be while the daycare kids were there but she could still see what was going on while they were outside playing, etc.

She mellowed into a wonderful dog after 2 years (you're right about that) and ended up being a great dog with the daycare children as well - she just needed to grow up a bit.

Anyway, please don't feel guilty if you find the right place for her and give her up - you can only take care of so many 'kids' ;-) And just think how badly you would feel if she got too excited and bit someone.

hugs,

W.

You mentioned that you adopted the dog. You may have signed a contract that requires you to return the dog back to the group that you adopted it from so they can find another home for the dog. I would check with your local humane society or other adoption agencies. They may be able to help you find a good home for the dog. You can check petfinder.com to find a list of local agencies.

I think you are doing the right thing. I know it is hard to give up a dog but this does not sound like the right dog for your family.

L.,

I think looking thru your vet is a great idea.

However, the mix of breeds your dog is, is typically WONDERFUL with kids.

I am sorry, I don't necessarily agree that you've given it time for the dog to become a 'dog' - she's still a puppy... persistent training will work, but she needs to grow up a little. I would take your dog in a heartbeat, but my husband is allergic. :'( I'm so sorry you will be getting rid of her. Good luck.

Hi, I have been through this too with a large energetic dog and having 3 small children knocked around and scratched up. I went to the Pet Rescue for his breed and they were very nice people. In the end, though, our vet ended up finding him a new home. Good luck to you.