L.S.
Chill Mama! It sounds like whatever you are doing, you are doing it right. Your daughter is a people pleaser. I have one like that too. They will sacrifice to make others happy. I would do what your gut is telling you to do, ease up! She will not let herself slip too far and she will find balance on her own. This is the time for her to figure it all out. With support from you, she will.