I’m on Cycle Day 43, No Period, and 2 Negative Pregnancy Tests??

Updated on February 10, 2019
A.R. asks from Hines, OR
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I’m 23 years old, I have an almost 2 year old daughter and haven’t been on the pill for 3 years. My husband I really want another baby. So, my last period started December 27, and ended on January 2nd. Since then I haven’t had my period and it’s almost February 7th. I took 2 tests and both are negative so everyone is telling me it’s stress. I can see that because I have 4 dogs that drive me crazy sometimes- but I feel different- maybe my mind is playing tricks on me because I feel like I could be. I’ve been emotional lately as well. (TMI) I keep having a bunch of white Cervical fluid, and sometimes it’s so much that I think I’ve started my period. Should I get a blood test done? Or should I wait a few more days? I hope I am, do I seem pregnant? Maybe I took the test too early?? According to my period tracker I should’ve had one almost 14 days ago. I keep thinking I’ll start because iveen so emotional, my husband thinks so too.

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T.S.

answers from San Francisco on

Do you have a phone, or access to a phone? If yes you can simply call your doctor. It only takes a few minutes to ask these questions, and get real actual medical advice. Or you can walk into your local planned parenthood and take a test.

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T.F.

answers from Dallas on

Why don't you just solve the issue by going to the Dr?

Our guess is as good as yours if you are pregnant or not.

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D.B.

answers from Boston on

There are a dozen reasons why this could be happening. You could just wait it out, but you're getting so stressed out, that doesn't seem like a wise choice. Get a blood test, either at your doctor's office or a walk-in clinic if you have a good one near you. I think it would be wise for someone to take a look at that fluid too - you're in the office anyway, why not?

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S.T.

answers from Washington DC on

see my brilliant and perfect response to the other version of this excellent question.
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B.C.

answers from Norfolk on

On average it takes a couple a year of trying in order to achieve conception.
So for every couple that gets pregnant right away there's a couple that takes a lot longer.
Relax.
Get control of the crazy in your life.
Reduce some stress - it can have a big effect on your cycle.
If you still aren't pregnant after a year of trying then talk to your doctor about it.

You have a child that's about to start with the terrible 2's, 4 dogs that drive you crazy sometimes and you want to add an infant into this.
Ok, maybe taking a little while to get pregnant might be a good thing.

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M.G.

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Do you mean you're ovulating? (From your TMI).

That would coincide with day 14 (where you say you should be). You may just have missed your period.

I've missed a period before. It happens.

I think if you're concerned you should call your doctor and ask what your next step should be.

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S.W.

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Call your doctor....

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