Any Dance/sports Moms Out There? Chaperone Tips for Nationals

Updated on May 17, 2012
S.D. asks from Saint Louis, MO
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Hello again...
Background info: I am very excited to be going as a chaperone for my daughter's dance competition team. This is the first year my daughter has gotten to go though she did competitions last year. We will be leaving for FL in a few weeks on the big coach busses and it will be about a 14-18 hour trip w stops and such (so I'm told) We will be starting out at 9pm and driving overnight, switching out drivers at some point. We will be gone for 8 days with travel. I will be in charge/room mom to 4-6 girls ranging in age from 7-13. I don't KNOW what age group I'll get yet...in the next week or so. There are about 80 kids going total. I don't know all the parents, but when I get my list of kids then I will call/email all of them, so they get a good sense of who I am. My daughter is towards the younger end of the spectrum of kids going, so I know most of those Moms. I may have my daughters age group, but my daughter will not be in my room...which helps prevent jealousy and favoritism issues (so I'm told) The kids will NOT be allowed to bring cell phones. They can bring ipods on the bus, but those will be locked in the room safe until the return trip. The kids will be kept very busy, and that way the chaperones will not have to keep track of their technology. The children will be asked to bring some sort of visa card to buy some of their meals with (like the $50 cards they sell at Walgreens/Walmart) The studio is giving them a neckbadge where that can be kept and not easily lost.

My question is: What advice do you have for me? If you've ever done such a trip with a dance or sports team, what pointers do you have for me? What things did you wish someone had warned you about before hand? What items should I bring, what things to watch out for with the kids and problems you may have had while chaperoning other peoples kids?

Any tidbits or lessons learned from your experience would be great. I'm very excited to go, but a little leery of what issues I may run into... and just want to be prepared.

Thanks so much!!!!!!!!!!

Added: Nope no cells phones period. They will live and its not like it will be a suprise to them. Personally I don't want to be responsible for their phones. The chaperones/dance teachers will have a cell phone with all the pertinent contact info (Studio will have the medical and paper contact papers). They will be allowed to call home and the studio will be sending updates and info daily. The chaperones will help them make their meal purchases and supervise their spending. This is MY first time, but by no means this studios first time. The no phone/ visa card policy are a result of their lessons learned from previous trips.

Thanks for the comments!!

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D.H.

answers from Kansas City on

It has been many years since I have gone to Nationals for dance competition, but I do remember some things. First, the cell phones not being allowed is to keep the kids focused on competing and workshops. We have the problem of kids in dance class constantly checking their phone to see if their BF texted them back. It disrupts concentration and their focus isn't on what it should be. As long as the chaperone give the parents their cell phone number and that chaperone keeps their phone charged there is no problem. We do that for church camp too. Just remember years ago there were no cell phone and we were just fine leaving for competition or camp without them.

As the chaperone and leader in charge of several kiddos I commend you on wanting to contact the parents. Good for you. You will need to get all contact numbers for them. Work, neighbor, mom and dad, brother and sister, grandma and grandpa. Just in case something does happen and you cannot get a hold of parents or family. Then find out if any of the kids has medical conditions...like asthma, ADHD, or something they need medication for. The studio should already know this and have this info for you, however it is good coming from the actual parent and they can always give you more info than the studio can. Like what to look for if an attack starts. And it will be good that the parents will learn about who is watching their child. Make sure you give them your numer also. Then for your room, bring snacks. Not a ton, but some. I remember going back to the room after dancing all day and being very hungry. Crackers, cheese its, and such. Not cookies and stuff. You don't want the kid who cannot control herself eat a whole box of cookies and be puking all night. (been there, done that)

I love the Visa card idea...didn't have that in my day. The only thing is, you should have them and not the kids. This way they don't get lost. I've lost money before and it is nerve racking even for a kid. So if you get your parents to send the card with the child (their name on it) and you keep track of them so they are not stolen or lost. These kids my seem honest, but trust me there will be one kid that will have a history the studio doesn't know about. Kids act one way at dance and another when not at dance. So if you are willing to hold on to those cards that would be great. It will also keep them from over spending too.

At the competition there will be booths to buy suveniers (sp), so make sure that at least your child has $$ to purchase a shirt or something. I remember buying entire outfits and cups and such. Won't be cheap either. But something they will cherish. You could mention that to your parents too. If they want to send seperate $$ for that.

One more thing...make sure everything is labeled, including underwear! Yes, underwear. A lot of these girls are the same size and purchase their underwear at the same place and believe me they will get mixed up. These kids will not be neat when they are away from home. It is like a new freedom for them. So you may want to be a room nazi and make them keep their clean clothes in their suitcase and dirty clothes in a bag (which I would bring a garbage bag for each girl in your room). That way they know what they have clean and don't wear the same pair of underwear twice, or tights for that matter....eww. ;0)

I hope this helps some. Like I said earlier, it has been a while since I've done dance competition, but I have done church camp and church trips...the studio where I teach doesn't compete, so I don't have to worry about that anymore, but do miss it!!

Good luck and God Bless and Have Fun!!

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E.S.

answers from Boston on

I'm sorry, I have no advice, I just want to thank you for thinking to call the parents of the girls you will be chaperoning, it will be very appreciated. My daughter is going next week and I've called the mother (whom I don't know) whose room she is staying in a couple of times and have received no response. I am uncomfortable with this, and my daughter is 16. So, thanks for being thoughtful!!!!

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K.S.

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Well they will have cellphones whether they are allowed to bring them or not. Best you can do is say put it away please. Moms want to be able to get the kids when they want them. Keep them safe. Speak to each mom if you know ahead of time and make sure there are no allergies you arent aware of. Remember when issues come up your daughter still needs to deal with these kids after your chaperoning is done. Be nice but distant.

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B.P.

answers from Cleveland on

i am not okay with the kids not allowed to have cell phones, and with them being in charge of their own money. its not a good idea AT ALL. good luck

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