Going Back to School
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Need advice...revised...
Asked by N.F. from Chicago
on October 6, 2011
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What do women do to keep their sanity when they are in serious financial trouble? I have 4 kids with one on the way (unplanned, but happy, nonetheless). I would love...
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- Hi N., I babysat in the house in the early tight years, Already got 4+ kids, what's a couple more part time? :)
- I have a friend in a hard way right now and she told me that she has recently joined the food bank at her church. She said it helps so much. I know that food stamps/...
- I would look into permanent birth control. I can't imagine sex being fun if you are afraid of another baby. I would also try to get him to manup. No more refereeing a...
Seeking Info on Divorce
Asked by K.V. from Washington DC
on August 21, 2007
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Well, I was told the other day that my husband of 3 years wants a divorce. This came out of NOWHERE!!!! He says he Never loved me and it isn't right that he has to b...
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- My guess is maybe he's just confused about what he wants. How old were you when the two of you married? 3 years ago I thought I wanted to get a divorce, mainly ca...
- Well the counseling sounds like a good start. It does seem very confusing. A lot of back and forth with everyone's feelings. After a few counseling sessions, if it ...
- Dear K., It sounds as though you and your husband are still in the process of becoming parents and married (a lifelong process) AND trying to become adults at the sam...
Having a Hard Time with My Tutoring Pricing with a Family.
Asked by K.K. from Washington DC
on September 29, 2011
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Hello mothers,
I am a tutor, I have taught in the school systems, child care centers and have been a nanny as well. I started working for a family and we originally...
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- OMG, they are really demeaning you. You are NOT a 'babysitter.' You are a tutor. You have, tried to be flexible. But cannot anymore. Say no. They are VERY unr...
- Respectfully, say no thank you. Don't compromise your worth. This is not the only family with tutoring needs...right? Clients who start out being difficult rarely g...
- Wow. That does seem high, but I think it is because you are tutoring 6 + hours a week. I think we paid $120 a month this summer for small group tutoring for twice a ...
18 Yr Old Son Moved Out & Hurt About It
Asked by M.R. from Dallas
on July 20, 2010
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Hi Moms, I would like your input on my situation. I'm having mixed feelings about my 18 yr old son moving out this weekend. He just turned 18 and by doing so, he tho...
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- How could he get a job if he's keeping YOUR 5 mo old and 10 year old every day while you work your long hours? Then to clean the house too - if you are a clean freak,...
- First of All: Anger management is a great idea. The coping skills you learn in those classes are things most people don't know but would make their lives so much easie...
- Don't beat yourself up, but I will tell you your son sounds VERY NORMAL! And your re-action is normal too! But I do think you can strengthen your relationship with y...
How Would You Feel About This? I Need to Vent.
Asked by A.M. from Lewiston
on August 31, 2012
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My daughter is 20 and a senior in college. She is studying Vocal Performance as well as Composition, and is proficient at both. Over the past four years, she has had h...
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- Exactly what Laurie A said!
- It's part of "paying your dues". I think your daughter is doing the right thing by "trying" to forgive the director.... and actually it's the ONLY thing she can do in...
- That sucks for SURE but it sounds like a good life lesson for her. Sometimes you bust your butt and you aren't appreciated or rewarded for it, even if it was somethin...
Rude Parenting Behavior from Step Mother
Asked by S.R. from Milwaukee
on June 11, 2012
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My kids step mother met my niece the other day and told her "I'm the one she likes". I find that very rude and hurtful. My daughter loves me I know but for an adult to...
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- it isnt worth the fight. you already said your ex won't be receptive to it, so why start a fight about it? I'd J. talk to your kid about how thats not a polite thi...
- It probably wasn't he best thing to say, but it wasn't "negative". I think your hurt feelings stem from much more than this one comment which was made to your niece, ...
- Your kids know and love you as THEIR mother. The step will never take your place in their hearts and minds. Kids are smart, they can often spot devious behavior on the...
Is It Worth Pushing My Husband into Buying Another House.
Asked by S.T. from Houston
on April 26, 2012
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I have one more question for you kind peeps.
As I have said in (many!) other posts, I am beginning college full time in August, I will be commuting an hour, so will...
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- Do you have six months combined (both you and hubby) saved up? Do you have at least a 5% downpayment and at least $5,000 for closing costs and moving costs saved up. ...
- I'm going to assume that when you say $200 per month "after bills" that "bills" includes gas, lunches, groceries, HBA items, etc. And even at that, $200/month leftove...
- It's NEVER a good idea to make a big purchase (especially, when that purchase is where you must live) when you are "just" making it. You shouldn't do this, sorry. Coul...
Should I Switch to Another Stylist?
Asked by S.C. from New York
on December 5, 2007
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Only another woman would understand the relationship between a woman and her hair stylist, which is why I'm soliciting advice from my Mamasource experts.
I've been ...
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- First of all I think it is great that you made such a good friend. I think going and doing what your husband said is a great idea. If it is to expensive, why not see i...
- S. - I agree with your husband. Give it a try and maybe bring your stylist a small holiday gift - chocolate, fresh ground coffee - and check it out. You may not s...
- I can't say I know what you mean because I have never had "one" stylist, nor have I had "one" salon that I went to. However, I agree with your husband, and try not to ...
I'm Sorry but This Month STINKS! Does Anyone Else Agree?!
Asked by K.K. from Washington DC
on July 13, 2010
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It seems like this month is the month of bad news and just not good over all. My employer (I'm a nanny) decided to go on a family vacation for 2 weeks and not pay me a...
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- K., that is so unfair of your employer to do that. While I am sure you are enjoying your time off, lack of money can really make for a miserable time. I wonder why t...
- poor K.. i remember your post about your crappy employers. i hope you kick them to the curb. i know you're venting and probably don't really want sunshine splattered ...
- Just before every paycheck we are in the single dollar range. It is no fun. Everything will work out. It always does. Think positive!
I Want Another Baby; Husband Does Not
Asked by J.F. from Columbus
on February 5, 2007
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I'm really confused on what to do. I have a 2 year old boy and am ready to have one last baby. My husband does not want anymore children. While I understand the reason...
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- I can relate my partner is 13 years older then me I know how you feel about wanting to have another we discussed it and aren't going to have anymore. You need to look...
- Whatever the decision, how will you feel in 10 years? Which decision will you regret most? What is the best thing for YOUR son?
- Hey J.- My name is M., I am 26 years old... and my husband is 50 ( Yes I typed FIFTY!!!) He has a total of 4 that arent my kids, and together we have 1 living. I want...
