Seeking a Dermatologist/Arlington

I recently had a biopsy taken from my back. It showed basal cell carcinoma. (the "good" kind of cancer) It was removed the next week. It was a small area (nickel size) and the Dr. expected 2 stitches. That night, my husband was going to redress it and gasped. It was 6 stitches and a 2" incision. I felt like she should have discussed the outcome with me so I could voice any questions or concerns. Today, the stitches were removed and I thought I was going to get a chance to speak w/her - but to my surprise, I would have to be put on the appointment register, pay a co-pay and worked in. I teach preschool in my home and had parents needing to get to work, so I left a message for her to have a phone consultation. She talks really fast and I have to ask her to repeat what she's saying sometimes 3 times. She hurries in and hurries out. I may be overreacting, but I'm feeling I would like a Dr. that is conscience of a patients' need "to know what's going on" - and this may be asking for too much - but a Dr. with a caring attitude.

I had to pay a co-pay for each visit (3) and no co-pay for the 4th to remove the stitches because the Dr. wasn't seen. I've never had to pay a co-pay for each visit for ONE "procedure." Is this common?