D.R.
Hey S.,
I have to say that I can see why he was upset. I know that weekend time is tough for my family too, my husband stays at home and I work full time. So weekends are really the only time we get to be together, but also have a lot of other things to do. After spending all day with the kids, I can definately see why he would want to take care of a couple things on his own (handle bills = catch a breather) and then spend the evening together. It just sounds a little like your priorities ruled the day, and he felt like he wasn't one of them. It wasn't wrong to want to go to the BBQ, but it was maybe not the most considerate thing to push it on him. You guys just really need to talk about what you individually need on the weekends to make sure everybody's needs are fulfilled. You had your scrapbooking party, maybe he deserved his night at home with his wife and kids. Just some thoughts.
Hope you guys get this all resolved,
D.