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Morning Sickness Is Really Getting to Me

this is my 3rd pregnancy, and i dont know if i thought it would be different this time or if maybe i just forgot how bad it was with the first two. this morning sickness is starting to really upset me. i understand all the facts, i know it will go away, i know its what i have to do to have my baby. but i feel so horrible that all that logic doesnt help me in the midst of the day.

with my first, i could sleep all day. with my second, my first and i would take 2 hour naps a day. this time i have a 5 and 2 year old who make a mess and dont nap. its just so much harder this time. i cant clean up the house, i cant do the laundry. my husband does help but it just is really getting to me feeling sick.

and when i say sick, i mean from the minute i wake up until the minute i finally get to sleep. today went like this. have breakfast, throw up breakfast, take shower, throw up stomach acid, feel horrible all day like im going to throw up. brush my teeth 20 min ago. throw up dinner. and when i say throw up, i mean violently chocking, gagging, coughing 25 times throwing up a little each time for 5 minutes straight. my throat is sore, my back and chest hurt from pulling muscles. its just horrible. and everything i read says 9 weeks pregnant is the START of the worst. and this is along with the worst heartburn, reflux ever from 2 pm until i go to bed, which actually feels as bad if not worse than the nausea. even water makes me sick. i usually get sick until 16 weeks and the heartburn reallty bad until 6 months. right now, just thinking of feeling like this that long makes me cry.

i dont have a question per se, i guess i just am hoping for people to tell me ill make it through and it will get better. this is my 3rd, and i should be used to it but i started crying a few times today since i felt so bad. i just wish i could get 10 minutes of feeling not sick. i am usually a strong person, never complaining unless im very sick, but this is unbearable.

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Good luck! I'm sorry it's so bad for you, I was the same way. Zofran didn't work for me and I had to take Phenagran. It didn't take away all the nausea but it helped me get through the day without wanting to just lay on the bathroom floor.

Hope it gets better soon.

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There's medicine for this! I have a friend who took it half of one pregnancy and all the way through the second.

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I took zofran. It helped, I wasn't completely better but at least I was functional.

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Just wanted to tell you how sorry I am that you feel that way! I was miserable with all-day sickness and I didn't have any other children to take care of. Hubby just let me go to bed at 6:00 at night and he took care of the house and everything during that time because I was so sick. And I didn't throw-up nearly as much as it sounds like you are!

I think you might be at a point where it's best to call the doctor and see about medication so that you're not getting dehydrated. I think I remember my doctor saying something specific about throwing up a certain number of times each day before there's a health concern for you or the baby. It sounds to me like you might be at that point. Good luck and hang in there!!! It's ok to feel sorry for yourself and just cry too - I understand what you're saying about being strong. I usually have to be really sick to stay in bed but the morning sickness was just terrible.

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I'm sorry that you feel so bad:( I went through the exact same thing with my third child. I finally had the doctor prescribe Zofran and it worked wonders for me. I used it only when my morning sickness was so bad that I couldn't function. My third baby was born healthy, so no consequences from using the drug.

Talk to your doctor, asap:)

Feel better soon:)

M.

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I had HG and was hospitalized after losing 20 pounds in like 2 weeks and keeping not even water down for days. Zofran helped me. I lived on the bathroom floor for almost my entire pregnancy, or, the couch with a trash can. The kicker, I ended up with Gestational Diabetes. How? I still do not know because I wasn't eating, especially sweets.

Anyway, Zofran is safe. It is tiny and dissolvable. It is the only thing that kept me sane for my 2 other kids. As for my house, well, I finally decided it was just a house. I couldn't "grocery shop", and, I'm a "health nut" usually. But, I felt good enough if my kids just ate something. So, they survived on canned ravioli, frozen dinners, and, take-out until my son got here. Blah stuff, but, hey, they ate. I'm still cleaning out clutter and corners (17 months after birth) in my house, but, we made it through and have a great miracle to show. It probably would not have been so hard had my husband been able to help out more, but, we own our own company, and, it is our livelihood. Without me being able to help out like I usually was, he was forced to work longer hours.

Good luck, the bracelets did NOTHING for me, but, some swear by them. Research "hyperemesis gravidarum" if you think it is too bad. If you can relate, ask your doctor about it. I had it with 2 of my 3 pregnancies. I survived, as does everyone else. You will be fine, and, it will get better. For some, it does not get better until the baby is born, but, for others, relief comes sooner. :)

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this sounds like it could be hypermesis gravidarum, which is serious if you arent getting enough liguids/nutrition. It can also cause depression. there are medications to help with the nausea, I would look into them and talk to your doctor.

Also, water is hard on your stomach if you're sick, I would try something else, like a gatarade or something with electrolytes.

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Go to this site

www.helpher.org

And read a little about hyperemesis and make sure first thing that you do not have this. I had two wonderful pregnancies and then bam my third pregnancy was HELL I sufferened from a severe case of hyperemesis.

You sound like I sounded at 5 weeks pregnant. And WATER is the worse thing you can drink...it is the harshes liquid on your tummy. Avoid straight water at all costs!

Talk to you doctor now and get help as soon as you can it is not something to mess around with. I landed in the hospital at 8 weeks pregnant on my death bed I was so sick. Now you may not have it as bad, but what I am trying to say is just because you are use to being pregnant and you have been through it before doesn't mean that you are not dealing with something more severe this time around. The forums on help her dot org are great if you are really struggling with how you feel physically and emotionally. I now all to well how hard it is to be pregnant with your third and sicker then sick.

I was sick till the day I delivered but I now have the most wonderful 8 week old and I think every moment was more then worth it...even though it didn't seem like it at the time.

Anyhow I have so many helpful suggestions that are more useful then eat some crackers and take some ginger because Hon that ain't gonna work. You most likely don't have "morning sickness" you have something more severe called hyperemesis. and that is not anything to mess around with.

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hi A., so sorry you feel so lousy. i had morning sickness, but only nausea most of the time. my heartburn, however, was absolutely brutal, really painful all day every day and it only got worse as the pregnancy continued, and was worse with each pregnancy. im sure you have tried almost everything, but ill share what worked the best for me..... for the nausea i kept crackers and ginger ale next to my bed and ate and drank immediately when i woke up, before even sitting up. it helped a lot. for the heartburn, the best thing for me was to raise the head of my bed as much as i could. towards the end it was like a ski slope, my hubby would actually slide down and out some nights! it helped a lot. and soymilk helped everything, a big glass of it once a day or so, i used to drink about 3/4 vanilla with about a 1/4 chocolate mixed in. it kind of settled everything. i still was taking tums by the fistful, and by the end of my last 2 pregnancies i had to be on something stronger, i dont remember what, your basic hearburn med whatever that was, zantac? i dont know. anyway, i wish you all the best, hang in there.

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i can totally relate :( i'm sorry you're so sick. i was sick until 18 weeks, and nothing, i mean nothing, helped except peppermint candies. i'd have to eat a bunch a day. but i'd do it just to feel better and do stuff around the house. i hope it gets better for you soon!

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