J.S. asks from Crystal Lake, IL on July 16, 2008
Milk Supply Decreasing and Baby Won't Take Formula
Hello Moms!
Here's my predicament, my 9 1/2 month old daughter was exclusively breastfed until she was 6 months old. She's been doing great with solid foods and drinks water out of a sippy cup, but has never taken bottles very well. I'm still nursing her before naps and 1-2 times at night, but here's the problem; I'm 16 weeks pregnant and my milk supply has suddenly and dramatically decreased.
My daughter has been waking up hungry several times at night and there have been times I've had to give her solid food just to fill her up. She refuses the bottle of formula and believe me, I've been extremely consistent with my attempts to offer it. I've tried mixing formula in with her solid food to get her used to the taste and she won't even touch that. I've also tried putting forumla in her favorite sippy cup, all to no avail. (I can't say I blame her, formula tastes awful:(
I known most pediatricians recommend waiting till 1 year for cows milk, but I'm at the end of my rope here and I feel terrible! I wanted to continue nursing until she was at least a year and hearing her hungry cries at night just breaks my heart! Does anyone have any suggestions I haven't thought of yet? Thanks.
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P.D. answers from Chicago on July 17, 2008
JS:
Why do you feel it is necessary to giver her formula or cows milk...
As I have said often on this list we need fluid for hydration... water is fine and food for nutrition.
Is it possible that she is waking for other reasons?
P., RLC, IBCLC
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S.C. answers from Chicago on July 16, 2008
This is a little less modern of an idea but you may want to consider it, goat's milk. You can only find it in very few places like Whole Foods and Trader Joes but it's what people used to use decades, even longer I'm sure, ago when a mother's milk or another mother's milk was not available. Back then they had no other option and cow's milk can be very hard to digest. It's a natural product and what are you going to do, keep feeding her table food in the middle of the night? Perhaps Google it and see what comes up. I know there are farms in the area that actually raise natural goats specifically for this purpose. I've met a couple of mothers who've had something similar happen, for one reason or another, and didn't want to use formula so they went the old fashioned way with this. Sounds crazy but if she won't take formula, it could be worth a shot for you. She's getting her fluids with the water but she needs fat for development and growth.
Best wishes!
S.
E.F. answers from Chicago on July 16, 2008
Try a different formula. My kids would only drink similac. My friends kids would only drink carnation. Have you tried the formula in the sippy cup?
N.W. answers from Chicago on July 17, 2008
Hi J S,
There is a natural milk producing herbal supplement called fenugreek that you called by at any health food store. You must follow the directions explicitly for it to work. I used it when I went back to work after my second daughter and my milk supply had decreased. It does work but you must take 3 huge pills, three times a day, and try to pump or nurse every 2hrs (even throughout the night) to really get your milk supply back to flowing. There is another called "mothers milk" or "milk seed" but the fenugreek worked for me.
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P.D. answers from Chicago on July 17, 2008
JS:
Why do you feel it is necessary to giver her formula or cows milk...
As I have said often on this list we need fluid for hydration... water is fine and food for nutrition.
Is it possible that she is waking for other reasons?
P., RLC, IBCLC
Breastfeeding and Parenting Solutions
K.H. answers from Peoria on July 17, 2008
Hi there! I am a mother of a six month old boy named Charlie and experienced a decreased milk supply from the very beginning. An herbal suppliment that was VERY helpful to me is called Fenugreek. There is also a tea called Mothers Tea that is used a lot, it has a wierd taste though. Without the fenugreek, I would have never been able to nurse Charlie for the last six months. I have recently had to stop nursing for medical problems with Charlie, but I could really tell on days that I forgot to take it first thing. You can get it at most all health food stores. Try it, for me my milk supply doubled within 36 hours!
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S.W. answers from Chicago on July 16, 2008
I second the advice of using a supplemental nursing system (SNS). I would use the pre-mixed Carnation Good Start. IME, my bf baby took this formula the best the few times we had to supplement. The pre-mixed will flow through the tubing better. This way she will continue to stimulate your breasts, but still get a bit extra.
Consider contacting Materna Wellborn in downtown Algonquin. They may have the SNS and the LC's there will be able to show you how to use it. Here is their website: http://www.maternawellborn.com/products.html
L.S. answers from Chicago on July 17, 2008
Hello JS,
Oh I felt so sad reading your letter. To hear your baby crying and you can't help is hurtful to moms. Well I breastfed also, although not quite as long. When I weaned my son I found that Carnation Good Start was what he preferred. You were right by saying formula is awful tasting because it is. Carnation Good Start is sweet just like breast milk. I don't know if you've ever tasted breast milk,I tasted mine and it's like sugar(LOL). It is also lighter on the stomach than formula and less staining during spit ups. You might want to start off half and half and slowly decrease breast milk as she gets used to it. Good Luck
J.V. answers from Chicago on July 17, 2008
I'd try either goat's milk or cow's milk. But if you introduce these watch for diaper rash as the acids in her system may change. I nursed my daughter successfully for 141/2 months. I ended up going to goat's milk with 1/2 tsp.ovaltine in it to get her to drink it! I hated to introduce her to chocolate that early but I was concerned about her getting the nutrients she needed. Momma's milk is sweet to baby. Try pushing alot of fluids as now you have 2 babies who are taking from you. Oats, lettuce, barley or malted milk may help your milk production. And the more I nursed I remembered to drink a big glass of something everytime! That's the best I can remember. Good luck!
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