N.K. asks from Deerfield, IL on April 13, 2011
Medical Bills
Hello everyone,
I am completely overwhelmed by my family's outstanding medical bills. The short version: we decided when my husband took a new job last year that because of my family's current financial contstraints, our insurance plan is high deductible/high co-pay. This gives us more monthly cash. The problem is that over the past year I have been diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis, had a baby in the hospital (got pregnant on mirena... Unforseen), had an infant in hospital for spinal meningitis (turned out to be H1N1), and several other issues.
All told, we have thousands of dollars in labwork, doctor's fees, etc not covered by our insurance. We simply don't have the money to pay all of these bills. What should I do? I'm so scared of ruining my credit, and I'm just not the kind of person who "walks away" from a debt out of principal.
Thank you so much.
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M.R. answers from Chicago on April 13, 2011
Ask to be put on a payment plan. They're likely to work with you if you're committed to paying it down.
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D.N. answers from Chicago on April 13, 2011
I have the same issue. I have deductibles and out of pocket and co pay etc. My son gets very expensive medication that is cahrged as major medical rather than prescription. As everyone already suggested, call the providers and see what you can setup. If they do not like the payments you can send, insist that is what you can and then write a letter explaining it so you have something in writing. And make the payments. If they do send to a collection agency ,you may be able to avoid having it reported by showing the letter and payments made and then arranging a schedule with the agency. I did this a few years ago. I could not send the provider the amount they wanted every month. Even though they did receive payments, they sent to collections. It took a while to actually connect with rep but I sent a letter and explanation and worked to pay off the bill every month. Not all collection agencies are wolves knocking at the door and they are willing to work with you. The collection did not appear on my credit report.
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D.P. answers from Pittsburgh on April 13, 2011
All you can do is all you can do.
IME, hospitals are very good about working with people who are trying to pay *something* and they are very willing to work out a payment plan that you can manage.
Personally, I would suggest paying small payments on all but the smallest--bang away at that as aggressively as you can, then add THAT amount (once paid off) to the next smallest, while maintaining small monthly payments on the larger ones...and continue this "snowball effect until they are gone. Good luck!
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S.H. answers from St. Louis on April 13, 2011
my heart goes out to you! Been there, lived it. It's not fun.
We've had medical expenses for 17 out of the last 20 years. We hope that we are at the end of this rocky voyage!
In addition to payment plans, you can also contact the hospital & ask to be considered for financial adjustments. You will have to complete a FULL financial disclosure & then your account will be placed in the review process. The end result could be a discount of up to the full bill, depending on your financial status. While a full discount is rare, anything will help!
As for your credit record, as long as you pay each facility $10/month, you should be okay. But be very aware about asking about payment plans!
I have a horror story to share with you: I had 2 MRIs last summer. I made sure the provider was in "my plan". BUT the company who provided the reading was not, I didn't know it, & I ended up owing <$500....but it still hurt 'cuz we were still paying off my husband's heart surgery & gearing up for my son's hip replacement. Got behind on my payments, asked for a payment plan, & was told the required payment ....which was above my budget. I offered them $50/month & they refused! I am still shocked over that! Sooo, for the next few months, I offered them $50/month & each month they refused. Finally, I hit an employee who dramatically "lowered her voice" & almost whispered to me: just send it in, we can't legally refuse your $$. !!! & then she told me that even if it's $5 they can't refuse it! So why did everybody else play hardball....when they could have had my $$ all along? !! Good Luck & stay strong......
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M.R. answers from Chicago on April 13, 2011
Ask to be put on a payment plan. They're likely to work with you if you're committed to paying it down.
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C.J. answers from Milwaukee on April 13, 2011
Get put on a payment plan. They are always MORE than happy to get something rather than nothing.
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B.R. answers from Naples on April 13, 2011
Ask your hospital about setting up a payment plan, as long as you are regular with payments, no matter how small...they won't report you to a credit agency. Also, ask your hospital if they can help you qualify for qualify for "share of cost Medicaid" - which is for un and under insured people and will possibly help cover a portion of those bills.
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A.G. answers from Albuquerque on April 13, 2011
Talk to the providers. My husband and I racked up more than 100k in medical bills last year, insurance only paid about 60k. The hospital that most things were done at had a foundation that helps those who cant afford to pay all of their bills. All we had to do was fill out a few forms and provide tax returns and the foundation paid about 95% of what was outstanding. They also set up a payment plan to pay what was left. Good luck!
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S.R. answers from Chicago on April 14, 2011
My advice is to contact each provider immediately to explain your situation and work out a payment plan for each. Also ask if any portion can be written off as a "hardship case" (this is more likely to work for hospital portion of expenses). It's best to try to work out arrangements before bills are turned over to collection agencies (even then, arrangements can be made, but your credit will take some hits).
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A.C. answers from Salt Lake City on April 13, 2011
Wow, I am sorry, that has got to be very stressful.
If you feel your insurance SHOULD have paid for some of the costs, you can send them a written dispute. Sometimes the hospital will place a hold on collection while the account is being disputed (be sure to ask them if they do, though. I did this a few months ago and one doctor held off on collection while the other doctor would not). Our insurance agreed to pay 50% of the cost due to my dispute, what a relief.
Second, contact everyone you owe and talk to them about your situation. They may be able to offer you an extended payment plan or a settlement where you pay less than you owe. Take good notes, get all agreements in writing and be organized. Find out when credit reporting/other action takes place on each account and pay off the accounts that are near credit reporting first.
Remember that most companies will work with you in order to get the bill paid. (I work for a collection agency). We do not want the bill to be written off, it leaves us unpaid. We will always take something over nothing. Good communication is key. It can be easy to get overwhelmed and ignore creditor calls and bills when they start to pile up, but if you are proactive you can find a solution. Good luck!
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A.S. answers from Philadelphia on April 13, 2011
since you have a high deductable plan , do you also have an hsa account?
I am in a similar situation currently, high deductable plan with unforseen medical issues. I uped what I am putting into the HSA and got on payment plans with the FOUR hospitals I had to deal with. I am paying the smallest off first like the other poster said and then snowballing to the larger ones
Good luck!
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