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Keeping Bra Straps on Young Girls Shoulders

My daughter is turning 12 and is developing physically. She is very thin and lanky. She is at a stage where a bra is needed. Our problem is that the straps keep falling off her shoulders. Since she does not use her right side (due to Cerebral Palsy), the problem is worst on that side. For now the long sleeves hide the strap. But soon the weather will be warmer and the short sleeves would allow the strap to show. She fuses with the strap at school and in her class this is a problem. I'm not aware of any specialty shops in Odessa area. I'm not even aware if they make something special for this kind of thing.
I'm open to any advice. Thank you

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I really appreciated all the advice. We have tried sports bras and they help with some of her clothes. But she complains of the discomfort. Against Chauntal's will, I took her to Dillards for a professional fitting. The bras they recommended were great. And not as expensive as I thought they would be. I also ordered some of the "stapkeepers" that everyone seen on Opera. We are going to try them on the bras that we bought before. I hate to through them out. They still fit some and I hope the "keepers" will help. I had no idea that I knew so little about bras untill I talked to the ladies in Dillards. Of Chauntal is still mortified. But she does like the new bras. Thanks everyone for the help.

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I have a couple of suggestions. In the lingerie department at Wal-Mart, they sell elastic strips with clips on either end that connect to each bra strap. Also, I was at the Penny's yesterday in Odessa and they have the cutest line of bras for young girls and a lot of them were racer backs. Hope this helps!

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Does she get enough support from a sports bra? I'm 25 and I still have problems with my bra straps falling, lol. Sports bras are my best friends!

Another thing you might want to think about is a professional fitting. It's embarassing, I know, especially for a teenager, but just ask the ladies in the lingerie department at Dillards or JCPenney to give you a hand. They may be able to recommend some brands that will fit her better.

Good luck!

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Try getting her a bra with straps that cross in the back. It will help keep the straps where they belong.

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I don't know if you have heard of ABC Distributing, it is a catalog that has all kinds of cool stuff and If you click on the link or cut and paste the link they have this really cool thing that holds your straps, anyway check it out....
http://www.abcdistributing.com/home/catalog/cat_item_pg.a...

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Does she get enough support from a sports bra? I'm 25 and I still have problems with my bra straps falling, lol. Sports bras are my best friends!

Another thing you might want to think about is a professional fitting. It's embarassing, I know, especially for a teenager, but just ask the ladies in the lingerie department at Dillards or JCPenney to give you a hand. They may be able to recommend some brands that will fit her better.

Good luck!

1 mom found this helpful

I have a couple of suggestions. In the lingerie department at Wal-Mart, they sell elastic strips with clips on either end that connect to each bra strap. Also, I was at the Penny's yesterday in Odessa and they have the cutest line of bras for young girls and a lot of them were racer backs. Hope this helps!

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Hi R.

I would have never thought about her getting a professional fitting, glad to hear it is helping her some. I think every girl is worried what others think when we start to develope in school.

D.

R.,
Cheap and Easy... double sided sticky tape on the bra strap against the top of the shoulder(a bandaide works in a pinch but harder to remove). You don't feel it and its a quick fix. Better than buying all new bra styles. My straps would fall down constantly as a teen (and I was a B)untill I started to increase the muscle mass of my shoulders. Also try to possition the strap closer to the neck(at the joining of the shoulder and coller bone) Good Luck :0)

Hi R.,
I read your request today and coincidentally saw on tv this invention that might be helpful to you.You just pin it on the shirt and it holds the bra starp in place. I hope this is helpful to you!
http://www.straptamers.com/

Have you tried using a sports bra instead? They have thicker straps and some have the clips in the back just like normal bras.

try these. i've heard they're wonderful.

http://www.qvc.com/qic/qvcapp.aspx/app.detail

they're from qvc. you can use them to hold bra straps to skin, or to clothing, or keep the front of your blouse together, mend a quick hem, etc.

if the weblink doesn't work, go to QVC.com and search item number A66434.

best of luck.

S.

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