E.A.
My husband is a firefighter, and I cannot tell you the number of times he has come home depressed because he could not save the life of someone who was not restrained in a vehicle. The public safety workers who have to rescue and try to save people who don't wear their seat belts aren't made of stone - they grieve for those losses too. And what makes it so bad is that those deaths are completely unnecessary. So when someone doesn't want to wear their seatbelt, I make them think about my husband pulling a dead child out of a car because their parents didn't make them wear their seatbelt. How selfish of them.