10 Weeks Prego

we had a similar confusion with my third. I had a period in Feb and we started testing after the next cycle come late, but they were negative until April. so at first I was told I was 13 weeks when I went in, but the midwife said I felt small and she ordered an ultrasound, On the ultrasound it became clear that the baby was only 6 weeks. And because of my work schedule that last month my husband and I only had 1 night together, so I knew exactly when he was conceived.

I guess the last period is not always reliable.

If you mean your last period was May 15th, based on general time frames, you could assume that just about the time you and your fiance were intimate was just about the time in your cycle you would be most likely to for ovulate. On average, most women ovulate about 12-14 days after the first day of their last period. The time which you say you and your fiance were together would for sure fall into that window of time in your cycle. This also explains the very faint positive test by July 4th..up until then, your HGC levels were probably not high enough yet for the test to pick it up...you were probably too soon into the pregnancy at that point.

It's sort of a myth that people's schedules are the same each month. Most people have slight variences in their cycle each month and it all depends on your hormone levels which can fluctuate. This means that if your hormone levels aren't optimum for the egg to release, you could ovulate really late, and in some cases as early as right after your last day of menstruation. The only real way to know when you are ovulating is by monitoring your basal temperature and other body signs, or using an ovulation indicator kit. This explains why alot of women approaching menopause get surprises!

If you're interested in knowing more about tracking your cycle to plan or avoid pregnancy, it can be done very effectively. In fact, using this method (which uses basal temperature and body signs) you can get pretty accurate in determining the peak day/days of ovulation...this method is that precise.

Even if you were an older woman with an unpredicatable cycle approaching menopause. Just go to Amazon.com and type in Natural Family Planning. There are several hospitals in the metro area that offer classes on how to do this. St. Joseph's Hospital in St. Paul has a great program if you're looking for a place to start. At the very least it's a valuable tool for you to better understand your cycle.

As for your pregnancy symptoms..none of my pregnancies were alike as far as symptoms go. One of my pregnancies, I never felt nausea. The others I was sick as a dog. Once again its all about hormones. Don't worry, I'm sure every thing is fine. By the way ..Congrats!

When we were trying to become pregnant I took 3 tests in one month before I got a positive one. My calucalated due date should have been 2 weeks before my ultra sound due date. My menstration cycle was normally more like 30-35 days, not the usual 28. If you usually got your period at the end of the month I would think you are similar. I didn't have morning sickness until 6 weeks into it and then I had it all day. Not everyone as morning sickness, even if you had it before. My pregnancy and delivery was all very normal.

Hi H.,

When I first missed my period when I was pregnant with my son, I took an "early detection" pregnancy test and it came back negative. My period was like clockwork, but I had NO symptoms whatsoever, so I chalked it up to anxiety, as we were actively trying to conceive. I took another pregnancy test about 10 days later, and it was positive. The home pee tests are not infallible.

I really didn't have any symptoms until the end of my first trimester, when the morning sickness kicked in.

Just remember, every pregnancy is unique.

I am also pregnant and this is will be my third child. This was the only pregnancy test that came back positive.
With my other two children I didn't find out for a couple of months because the tests always came back negative. They say every pregnancy is different and it is so true! None of mine have been the same. I hope that makes you feel a little better. It is so nerve racking to have to wait between those first few apts!!

H.,

Keep in mind that every pregnancy is different, even in the same woman. My first I was sick from week 3 till week 17, puking every day, exhausted, didn't gain any weight until about half way through my second trimester.

Second time around (only a year later) I was not sick once, felt great the whole time, gained more weight at the start (since I was eating and not puking all the time).

This time, I was sick (but not as nauseated as the first), not so tired, but generally feel worse than the first time physically.

Your symptoms might be completely different this time around, especially since it's been 8 years since you had a baby... you might be achy, you might feel great. It's all normal :)

Good luck to you!
J.

SAHM to Charlie (3) Joey (19 months) and baby girl due in Nov.

When I found out I was for sure pregnant with my first son I was about 12 weeks along. I had missed my period for 3 months and had very minor symptoms. My husband and I were trying to concieve and I had been taking pregnancy tests since the first sign of a missed period. Each came out negative and even a few faint lines. It made me crazy. I remember that I treated my self like I was pg and stayed away from alcohol and ate healthier. And then one week when taking my weekly pg test the line showed very strong so I made an appt with the doc. My due date was off alot but the baby was just as healthy as ever. My second pregnancy I had an vivid positive line and it was the day before my first period was supposed to arrive. Totally different from my first. Anything is possible. Hang in there and good luck!

H.,

As your doctor will surely tell you, every pregnancy is different. I have 4 children, one is 25 years old, one is 18 years old and two are 8 years old. All very healthy. Yes, the pregnancies were all different, especially with the twins, of course. Please don't get too worried about what you perceive as different responses by your body to a new child. I am not a doctor, so I cannot tell you with %100 certainty that everything is just dandy, but take it day by day and have a wonderful time as things progress.

You know, this is not reassuring, but I'll try hard not to put too much fear into you--there are many, many, many ways to experience a pregnancy; I know plenty of women who've felt better the second time around. BUT--if you are worried, concerned, CALL YOUR DOCTOR! I miscarried my second pregnancy and, two years later, I'm still a little upset at how routine everything was for them. My third pregnancy was treated no differently (no appointment until the end of my first tri--and I was miserable with anxiety), and I'm a little resentful of that. Especially if it consuming you, causing you lots of worry, call your doctor. I know it's routine in many practices not to see women until the end of the first trimester, but I honestly think that's when women need the emotional support of a doctor and especially if you're concerned--either because it was unplanned or it feels so different--call your doctor and set up an appointment--tell him/her exactly what you wrote, and if they're not supportive--find a doctor who is! Just remember, every pregnancy is different. Good luck!

I never felt pregnant until I felt my daughter move. I was never nausous(sp) or had breast tenderness. I was very tired. I wasn't really uncomfortable until the last month.

I was 34 when I got pregnant.

Best wishes & congratulations!!

With my second pregnancy the test had a very faint positive line. The first test I took a few days before that one was negative. I went in for a blood test to make sure I was pregnant. I didn't have any symptoms either, unlike my first pregnancy. I was worried because of a lack of symptoms. The result was a very healthy baby girl. I'm sure everything is okay with you.
You mentioned that you didn't fool around until early June. That would have been about the time you should have been ovulating. For most women it is usually about two weeks after the start of their period. Also, most menstrual cycles are on a 24 -26 day cycle (the first day of your period is the first day of your cycle). If you are watching the calendar, which is generally a 30 or 31 day cycle, it may seem like your period is early when in reality is actually right on time.
It sounds like everything is normal and that your pregnancy is right on track! Hope this helps. Good luck!

Well I'm almost 28 with a 7 year old and pregnant too!

I was on birthcontrol, and didn't realize I was pregnant til I was already 8 weeks along. I couldn't believe it my symptoms were hardly noticable as well but then again I wasn't trying to get pregnant so I wasn't looking for symptoms. I either got pregnant end of January or beginning of February. Funny thing was I had a ovarian cyst burst and ended up in the E.R. on Valentines day and they did a pregnancy test then and said I wasn't. I sure must have been though. Anything can happen I guess.

My first pregnancy the line was super light I felt super pregnant etc... This pregnancy I am 24 weeks along and still don't really feel pregnant. Pregnant with both girls and it's very different this time.

I'm expecting another little girl this October. It's definately strange but I'm super excited I never thought I'd have more kids.

Good Luck!

I know you got plenty of advice, but I just thought I would share my 4th pregnancy with you. When I found out, I was shocked, after all it was my 4th and my 3rd was only about 10 months old. I had no symptoms whatsoever, just took one because I was very late. Anyways, since this was my 4th pregnancy and I had never had a miscarriage, I just assumed this would be the one, after all I had no symptoms, not even sore breasts. So they had me do an ultrasound, mostly to find out how far along I was because I am not regular. Sure enough, there was a blob, but no heartbeat. I said well that proves it, doesnt it, no heartbeat. My doctor was shocked at me. I think she was planning on slapping me but restrained herself. lol She informed me that I wasnt far enough along to see a heartbeat, as I was barely 5 weeks along and it was the 5th week that heart was developed. I had another ultrasound a couple of weeks later and there was the most beautiful sight of the heartbeating like mad. He is now 5 months old and perfect!! Good Luck!