I Did It Again, Failing to Plan for My Husband's Business Parter's Xmas Gift

Updated on December 07, 2012
I.X. asks from San Clemente, CA
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My family made the decision not to exchange gifts this year. It gave me the false sense that I didn't have any gift shopping to do this year. However I swore I would not be shown up this year by my husbands business partner's wife. She is so sweat and for the last two year in a row has bought the cutes JP's for my daughters. Then I find myself scrambling because i forget to give them something. As a mom of little ones, I left my husband's business affairs and gift giving up to him. But in this situation I needed to step up. Its not that i have not thought of it, or that i'm out of time for the season. But, tonight is their business christmas party and here I am again, without a gift. I don't want to copy her gift idea, and her kids are older. I don't want to show up without a gift for them because there is no way she forgot. I'm so lame! Help me come up with something. Her kids are middle school age (8 and 12 ?). All I can think of is a restaurant gift card. Oh help me, someone have a better Idea than that? Oh I hate myself.

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movie tickets is a great idea. I think i"ll do it at the Cinopolis which is high end theater with reclining chairs!

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J.C.

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Buy movie tickets and put in a basket or something with candy and bag of chips/ pretzels/popcorn. Or... Just give movie tickets.

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Think family game night. Make a basket - or a wooden chest (you an buy at a craft store in a pinch - buy games like Pictionary, Apples to Apples, Would You Rather. Then include a cute bowl with microwave popcorn packets, some popcorn spice (at the grocery store next near the chips & popcorn), maybe a family-friendly comedy DVD, and soda glasses. You should be able to get it all in one trip to Target or WalMart.

My kids are 13 and 16 and it's a treat to be able to have everyone home on family night and play silly games like Pictionary. We laugh alot and still kid eachother about some really bad drawings.

BTW - don't think of youself as a failure - it's just a gift and not one of the big things in life!

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T.F.

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I buy a lot of Godiva chocolates this time of year and I will pair some chocoloates with a gift card, ITunes, etc.

At ages 8 and 12, movie tickets with snacks is good too.

We have a goumet popcorn place that has really cool tins as well.. favirite sports teams, college teams, etc.

For couples, we give a nice bottle of wine.

Good luck.

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M.W.

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I would totally do a family gift that they can enjoy together. NewYorkMetromom's description is exactly what I would do. Put in a little gift card that says something like "May this season and the New Year bring your family many hours of laughs and wonderful family memories!"

Have fun at the party!!

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N.P.

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Can't go wrong with boxes of fancy See's chocolates! What kid wouldn't want to get a whole box of chocolates to themselves for the holiday? If the mom is a Sugar Nazi then I'm out of ideas. When it comes to other peoples kids who I don't know very well, it's either candy or cash. Both are always well received.

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C.V.

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Any chance they have iPods? How about some Apple gift cards?

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J.C.

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iTunes gift cards are great, too!!

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J.B.

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I would go with iTunes gift cards. Those are always a hit with my older kids. They don't even have iPods but you can still use them to download music to a PC, buy apps, etc.

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