Hi S.,
Welcome to the Triangle! You are in a familiar boat. I'm a SAHM of 3 kiddos. Never a dull moment at our house.
Here are some recommendations I'd like to pass along:
Our pediatrician is Dr. Rebecca Daumen at White Oak Pediatrics ###-###-####). She is quite personable and down to earth. http://www.whiteoakpeds.medem.com/
Our pediatric dentist is the practice called Wake Orthodontics and Pediatric Dentistry; phone # is ###-###-####, website: http://www.raleighorthopedo.com/ ; They have a great staff and my kids usually do great with them.
ENTs are a dime a dozen around this area. My kids have had issues with tubes, tonsils and adenoids along with allergies. I highly recommend Dr. Mark Brown at Capitol ENT. They do have a Wake Forest office: ###-###-#### http://www.capitolent.net/ (They also have audiologists and speech therapists, should you need either of those services.) I recently saw Dr. Brown with a sinus infection.
Another good ENT is Dr. Clarkson at Raleigh ENT: ###-###-####. Dr. Clarkson performed a tonsillectomy and adenoidectomy on our youngest daughter in 2003- great personal follow-up and care. Dr. Clarkson is wonderful with kids. http://www.raleighent.net/
We recently had BCBS PPO- for eye care, we went to Eye Care Associates: ###-###-####. We see Dr. Briggs at Cameron Village. She has been great with our whole family. The staff are pretty laid back yet professional. I've been to one of their other sites, and prefer the Cameron Village location- great service. http://www.eyecareassociatesnc.com/
For GYN, I highly recommend Mid Carolina OB/GYN: ###-###-####; http://www.midcarolinaobgyn.com/. I've seen Dr. Inge for 7-8 years. He has a good yet quirky sense of humor, keeps things light. I have always had time to get answers to any questions or concerns I have. Good support staff, too.
Again, welcome to the area. I hope your settling in time passes quickly as the summer progresses.