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Did you know he was like this when you married him? Men don't change, women do... That's how relationships go. If he has always been like this, then it's something you accepted before you married him. If not, then you have a right to be upset.

Personally, I think he has overstepped your comfort zone. He KNOWS it and is being disrespectful. That is unacceptable in a relationship. He is extremely immature and you have outgrown him!

I have a hard time splitting when it comes to families with children. I can't say that counseling is going to help because lot of men just aren't willing to change, especially when it comes to this sort of thing. So you have to decide inside yourself whether you are willing to ignore it or if it is time for you to move on and find someone more suitable to you.

Good luck and God bless! {hugs}

It's very immature of him.
After letting him know your thoughts on it if he continued to do it, I can really picture myself tossing his phone out the car window one day and watching it sail into a deep ravine.
Remind him that he's a husband and father.
Maybe let him see that you've joined match.com or somethin. (so he can feel how violating it feels)
At some point he needs to heed your wishes on this and grow up.
Does he hang out with a bunch of other immature guys? I'm guessing that's the case.

Completely unacceptable behavior for a married man!

Not cool. Maybe, instead of getting angry, play stupid and say 'you know you can search by negative keyword to weed out the ho bags!'

Search ESPN -cheerleaders or NBA -adult or SPORTS -xxx

Good luck, and I'm sorry, that stinks :(

I hear you, and no it is not okay. Instead of "parental" controls someone needs to invent Husband controls, I get that it is an addiction and if someone needs help modifying their behavior (most addictions need help in the beginning) we should help them. but I don't see that your Husband wants to change his behavior, that's where you have to decide what you are willing to accept and clearly express that to him as well as the consequences if he crosses that line, then let him decide what he wants to do about it, but follow through with your consequences, if he crosses the line. many people are okay with this behavior, personally I'm not, but YOU have to make the call! and YOU have to live with the consequences.

When you married one another, two became one. If it is a problem for you, it is a problem. It's not a victimless preoccupation. If he doesn't stop, the victim is going to be your marriage. You need marriage counseling like a broken bone needs a doctor. Don't let him minimize your pain. We can all see it.