Question About Rights of Other Parent

Updated on June 07, 2008
C.A. asks from Houston, TX
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My ex has custody for now and he tries to manipulate me by using my babies. Our current agreement has the time for me to pick up my children is 6 pm. He has recently moved to Tomball which is an hour away from where I work and I get off at 5. Now, add Houston traffic to that and I can't get there until 6:30 or 7:00. He is aware of all this and I have asked if he would still let me get them if I got there at 6:30. He refuses and says that I forfeit my rights if I am not there by 6. Does anyone know if this is a fact or not? How can that be the law when you can't control if you are late sometimes, especially with traffic and keeping a job???

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D.B.

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Go to one of the following and ask them for help: Some charge money and some do not - perhaps you can go through the Attorney General to ask these same questions as well. I was not able to afford an attorney and made $120 over the limit for pro-bono work from Legal Aid. I just decided to start calling the TOAG directly and got info from them as much as possible.

Good luck!

Deb

Organization: Harris County Domestic Relations Office
Program: Parent Conferences & Visitation Enforcement
Affiliation: Harris County
Address: 1310 Prairie, Suite 700
City, St. Zip: Houston,, TX 77002 View map
Phone: ###-###-####
Fax: ###-###-####
Hotline:
Email:
Website: http://www.dro.hctx.net
Services Provided: Co-parenting Education, Legal Services for Enforcement, Mediation, Parenting Coordination
Spanish Services: No
Counties Served: Harris
Fees: Free--Parent Education Free--Mediation Sliding Scale--Social Studies & Parenting Coordination $50 Attorney Consultation $50 Parent Conference $50 application/Legal Fee
Eligibility: Harris County courts must have the authority to hear your visitation matter.
Organization: Houston Galveston Institute
Program: Parenting Coordination Services
Affiliation:
Address: 3316 Mount Vernon Street
City, St. Zip: Houston, TX 77006 View map
Phone: ###-###-####
Fax: ###-###-####
Hotline:
Email: ____@____.com
Website: http://www.talkhgi.com
Services Provided: Co-parenting Education, Parenting Coordination
Spanish Services: No
Counties Served: Harris
Fees: Parenting Education: 2 three-hour workshops for $80 total (per person) Parenting Coordination: Fees set on sliding scale.
Eligibility: Clients must have ability to pay out-of-pocket for services. There are no other eligibility requirements.
Organization: Parenting Partnerships, Inc.
Program: Family Life Education
Affiliation:
Address: 719 Sawdust Rd, Ste. 110
City, St. Zip: The Woodlands, TX 77380 View map
Phone: ###-###-####
Fax: ###-###-####
Hotline:
Email: ____@____.com
Website: http://www.parentingpartnerships.com
Services Provided: Co-parenting Education, Mediation, Parenting Coordination
Spanish Services: No
Counties Served: Harris
Fees: $75.00 per hour
Eligibility: No restrictions
Organization: Victim Assistance Centre, Inc.
Program: SAFE Family Programs: Supervised Visitation & Exchanges
Affiliation: Victim Assistance Centre, Inc.
Address: 1310 Prairie, Suite 1030
City, St. Zip: Houston, Tx 77002 View map
Phone: ###-###-####
Fax: ###-###-####
Hotline: ###-###-####
Email: ____@____.com
Website: http://www.victimassistancecentre.com
Services Provided: Neutral Pick-up and Drop-off, Parenting Coordination, Supervised Visitation Centers
Spanish Services: No
Counties Served: Harris
Fees: $50.00 annual registration fee paid by both parties. Visiting party pays both registration fees if custodial has had a protective order, or if the custodial party is not a biological parent. Visit fees $60.00 month with visits scheduled every other Saturday for 4-hour periods in group setting. Private visits $50.00 first hour, %25.00 each additional hour. Exchange fees, $20.00 per party, per exchange.
Eligibility: court ordered or mutual agreement of the parties

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K.K.

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I'm not a lawyer but if he does not let you have your kids on your visiting days just because you are 30 minutes late, HE is the one in violation, not you. I think any reasonable judge would see it that way, but then not all judges are reasonable. You said you have tried Houston Volunteer Lawyers, you should be able to at least get a one time consult from them on how to deal w/ this problem. If it were me, he would be the one worrying about "forfeiting" his rights if he denied me my visitation based on something so ridiculous. If you have a court order giving you visitation and he refuses to let you pick them up for something so stupid, call the police!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They may or may not help you, but I'd be calling just the same.

Blessings to you on your health and situation.

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J.L.

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C.,
Generally there is a statement in the decree that states these are guidelines if the parents can not agree. 6pm is standard but as Kim G stated, no reasonable judge would see a problem with being 30 mins late because of traffic. He is also going against a court order that states you have visitation rights so he can NOT keep your children from you because of something you can't control (work hours and traffic). I can not assume you've already discussed that with him, but I would definitely let him know that he is going against a court order for you to visit with your children. I would seek professional advice, get a consult at the least so you know your rights on this specific issue. He is not looking out for the benefit of the children; it's a control issue for him. On the TOAG website, there is a link for a PDF file on Non-Custodial Parent rights. I would review that. It may have something useful in there to help you.
Good Luck. Wish I could help more. It's situations like this that drive me to go back to school to study law.

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N.G.

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if you have a court orde, you can call the Att Gen office and have another mediation to rearrange your visitations if it is impossible to meet....they are willing to compromise because they want what is best for the children

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L.M.

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C., I have no advice to give and for that I am sorry. But, My heart is with you and I have already prayed for your healing and for some compassion from your ex becasue he needs it. Keep fighting even when it seems like you are losing.

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