A.L.
Hey P. Bear! First don't be so h*** o* yourself, you didn't fail at anything...second, is easier than you think, but it takes courage to do it. My first to sons hung on to it until 3 (the first) and the second until he was 4. With both I used the Paci Fairy, I chosed one day (like an important one) I explanined the Fairy deal, "leave the paci, she will leave a toy" ( a little one), the day came and I had to do it like ripping a band aid, fast. The paci desapeared and he found a little toy instaed, now the excitment lasted only until the next nap, then he didn't want the car anymore! That's when you just have to be brave, confort them, lots of hugs and bear with a little crying for about 2 to 3 days....then is ALL over...they forget all about it. If I were you I'd choose Valentines, I'll explain to her that she is a big girl now, that the Dentist said that the paci had to go because her theet are going to be all crooked ( this helped with my second son) and that she is a pretty girl and so on...tell her that on Valentines the paci is going by by and then just make it desapear that day.Bake cookies, a cake CELEBRATE WITH HER and make her to feel proud of what she did...then when the tears came later at night remind her of the wonderful day she had and then just bear with her for a few days...she will be over it after 2 to 3 days. Maybe you can buy her a little stuffed animal or a doll she can sleep with now...
I hope it helps!
Best of luck!!!
A.