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How to Discipline 2 Year Old Saying a Bad Word

My son is 2 and he goes to day care. The other day he fell and to express his frustration he said a bad word. Neither me or my husband said that word. I think he learned it from daycare. I address that with the people at day care. The thing is that I don't know how to address it with my son or how to correct him. He's said it two more times after that. Need advice. Thanks

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At two, he is young to understand the concept and be disciplined for that. At his age, it's usually recommended that you ignore him and not give him a reaction, if you react, he'll keep saying it. I would suggest if he falls, say "Ow!" and hopefully he'll catch on to saying that.
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Ignore it and he will stop.

Don't make a big deal when he says it, after he falls. Just focus on the fall and ask if he's's ok...etc.

Later when he's distracted and calm, ask him where he learned that word. Say u don't like it and a better word to show you're angry when u get hurt is....DARN or whatever u choose.its ok to get mad but I like these words better...

He may still use this word since he knows u don't like it and it gives him a power over you. Obvuiously he is tedsting you and likes getting a reaction so act like it doesn't mean anything but shrug it off and give him a choice if funny new words he can use, instill it in the next few times he says the bad word.hope for the best!

the best advice I can give you as a current parent and former pre-school teacher is to be very passe about it....when you hear him say that word, just say..eehh I don't like that word...and drop it. the more of a fuss that is made, the more he will say it. I had a little girl once (who was also 2 at the time) curse like I don't know...I didn't react and she never said it around me after the first time...another teacher made a big deal about it, put her in time-out-the works...and every time she saw that teacher she would call her an blanking blank.....because of the reaction!!!!

I would agree-just remind him that is not a nice word and maybe teach him an appropriate thing to say. Tell him if he uses it again, he will have to sit in a time out. My son is 20 months old and I use time out for some behaviors and it seems to work.

Just ignore. Do not react at all. He will stop.

actually, our pediatrician had said don't mention it, ignore it/. i know, i found it strange too but it worked. he said more we talk about it, bigger deal it will become to kids and more they will want to use it
btw, my daughter had dropped the f-word at ped's office when lollipop fell on the floor.
his face said it all of course, but he immediately suggested we say nothing.
it was the first time i had heard her say that word. i never said anything about it and she never mentioned it again.

He's a little young for "discipline", especially b/c he doesn't know that what he said was a bad word. My suggestion would be to say to him, "that is not a nice word to use and you cannot say it again" (warning). If he says it again, repeat and use a short "time out" (2-3 minutes).

My daughter did the same thing. She was saying the F word. So what we did was when she said it we would say "oh you saw the truck" or "where is the duck". She hasn't said it since we started doing that. We have been really watching what we are saying now. Not sure of the word that your son said but maybe you can change the word every time he says it. Also make sure that you tell him that its not nice to say that. Wish you luck!

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