Germ O Phobia

Updated on September 19, 2010
P.O. asks from Antioch, TN
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Ugh ...please tell me he will be fine...we went to the park and my husband and I were a distant apart, so my son started running toward me and in the process, stopped and picked up a cup with a straw from the park chair and started to drink from it (This was what my husband said because I didn't see it happen, I was playing with my other son) Now all kinds of things are running thru my head of all the germs - who was drinking from it, what if he catches something awful, and I guess I am panicking if he is going to get sick from something nasty. I am trying to tell myself it may not be so bad, but its not working. Help!

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You guys are right and thanks for the reality check, whew!! In fact just after I posted it, I saw one of the articles with a pic of a child surrounded by dirt, trash or something to that effect, and then that image crossed my mind and I thought "Well if a homeless person drinks and eats from the trash sometimes and still lives, then it couldn't be that bad" - I just had a mommy moment panic and thought I could get some reassuring words from you moms. Thanks a bunch. What would we do without each other's experience and advice :-))

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D.M.

answers from Dallas on

If you only knew how much dirt that a human eats in their life time, this would stagger you. My children are 15 and 12 and are perfectly fine and have never been sick and trust me, they did the exact same thing. 99% of all germs can not live outside the coziness of the human body for more than a few minutes anyway. So don't worry, the chances of your child getting something from a source like that would be extremely rare. You would probably have a better chance of being hit by lightning. Hope this helps!

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D.P.

answers from Pittsburgh on

This story will make you fell better--guaranteed.

When my son was about 3 and finishing up his potty training, he loved to try out ALL of the public restrooms/urinals, etc that he could.

O. night at Outback Steakhouse, my hubby had taken him to the mens room about 6 times during dinner. When he said he had to "pee again" I said that I would take him (to the ladies room). As soon as we got in there I went into GermOPhobe M. instructing him to NOT touvh anything, wiping off the toilet seat, using my foot to flush, etc, etc, etc. We went tothe sink to wash our hands and I had to boost him up to reach the water, So I'm holding him against the sink with my pelvis (stading behind him) and washing his hands, arms, elbow, etc (Lol) Suddenly I hear a slurping sound and I look down at him and he's LICKING THE SINK! I almost died!
He (obviously) did not.
Your son will be OK.
Exhale!

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J.S.

answers from Minneapolis on

Better than my friend who's son ate goose poop (age 2) when he was too far ahead of them and stopped to grab it off the ground.

Eeewww. He's now 5 and totally fine.

:)

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P.M.

answers from Portland on

Well, your son could get sick, just exactly like he could get sick if he touches a doorknob, stair railing, kneels on the floor, or the like, and then touch his mouth. Or if food prepared in a restaurant is served by somebody who absentmindedly rubbed her nose, sprayed a bit while talking, or sneezed. We all get exposures like these all the time, and there's no particular reason to think that a cup lying on the ground was left there by a sicker person than those who share their microbes with us on a daily basis.

Recent research shows that children exposed to lots of germs and dirt (just the normal stuff) are generally much healthier by the time they enter grade school than children who grow up in unusually hygienic surroundings. AND the "germier" kids have significantly lower rates of asthma. Our immune systems actually need these exposures in order to train themselves to recognize nasty invaders. Current thinking is that when the immune cells don't have that work to organize their responses around, they begin to attack the body itself, resulting in auto-immune diseases.

And of course, exposures that result in colds and other illnesses also immunize us against future exposures to the same bug. You can get three colds in one season, but they will be caused by three distinct strains of virus (unless your immune system is compromised, of course).

So do your best not to panic – it won't keep your son well if you do. Just be alert for any unusual symptoms. None of us can promise you that he will "be fine," but numerically, his chances of picking up some terrible disease are probably not much higher than getting struck by lightening.

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P.W.

answers from Dallas on

I didn't read all the other post and I see you have calmed down. I just wanted to share with you that my niece did this in a mall once. She ran ahead of us, picked up a discarded drink with a straw and drank from it. My sister and I were mortified. She didn't get sick. She is now 30 years old and has a rambunctious boy of her own. It really was okay.

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M.M.

answers from Washington DC on

It was probably some M. with two sons who was running around trying to catch them and left it there. I think your son will be just fine. It is yucky, though.

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S.L.

answers from New York on

It happens, they all do it. We dont always see it! We were at the farm where geese and other animals roam and do there business and my son dropped part of his muffin on the ground, before I could grab it he picked it up -lightning fast- and popped it in his mouth! You can imagine what went thru my mind! They touch EVERYTHING and put their fingers in their mouths. Never heard of a child catching more than a cold from these things.

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